not sure this is what i want

[dollthesheep]

im 6 weeks pregnant and havent been able to get out of bed due to not being able to eat and drink. I have severe leg pains and stomach pain. I also have polycystic ovaries.

Im not sure if i want this baby at all and i dont know what to do iv spoken to my mum and closest friends but they all just say the same things to me :(

[jschoch8]

you shouldnt make your decision on how you feel about the father. that baby is also part of you, and has a beating heart for you. pregnancy (especially unplanned) is never easy, not for anyone. But like all these women have said, once you feel and see your baby on u/s, there is no way not to love him/her.

[smjmekg]

If you are in that much pain, and feeling that bad you really should see a doctor, just to make sure everything is looking ok so far in the pregnancy. As far as how you feel with your boyfriend, it really could just be hormones. Men have come on here having problems with their girlfriends/wives hating them and newly pregnant, and we tell them the same thing we're telling you it really can be hormones. I assume this is your first pregnancy, so you don't know for sure how your hormones will be or how your body will react to it completely just yet. Ashelen gave you really good advice about talking to someone. Maybe your doctor is a good choice. You mentioned that everyone keeps telling you the same thing, try talking to your doctor and go into the office ALONE. He/she is there to listen to your concerns, and although he/she may not be a therapist, he/she can help. I've had moments with my son and now this baby (I'm 15 weeks pregnant) where I wondered, what the heck am I doing? Do I really want this? I know it's just my hormones getting to me, I wouldn't change having my son or this baby for anything. Talk to your doctor, before you decide anything, see if he/she can help you first.

[dollthesheep]

all iv been doing is thinking.
He kissed me and i felt nothing, he would try and cuddle me and it just didnt feel right anymore.
I am in so much pain and going to lose my job i dont know what to do!

[Cassandrajane]

Please THINK! Thats the best thing at the moment, Think.

because you really 'don't know what you've got till its gone' Both baby and boyfriend!!

x

[Clysta]

Are you sure it's not hormones and stress that could make you not want him? Or do you truly just not have feelings for him anymore. Pregnancy does a lot to a female and at times you can make a lot of wrong choices because of them. Try giving it time. Don't make any rash choices. Think long and hard about everything.

[Cassandrajane]

Ohhh... Cant you work out some sort of Custody thing if you decide to keep it.. Or you can give him full custody rights and stuff.. basically have him adopt your baby type thing and the baby live with him?? Or something. But I know how it isto have a termination and how much you regret it after wards and how much it knock you for six, and you'd do anything to have your baby back after its  gone. The old saying, 'You dont know what you've got till its gone' is actually true!!

xx