Boyfriend problems

[Trishaun]

Yesterday I woke up around 8am boyfriend was still sleep I fell back to sleep  woke up around 11am he was gone he told me that his friend was doing something for him for his bday ok not a problem but y so early it is know the next day 5:15am and he is still not here I'm about to go to work I been txn him and I have not got a answer yet watt should I do HELP
Due date jan 20,2014 #girl

[AnnieBrooke]

Don't forget to see the attorney or legal services clinic about filing for child support from his cheating behind.

[breccans_mommy]

Good job!!! Awesome ! Do you feel like a bad *** now? I would lol doing things like that is hard!

[Stuningly]

Do.what you have to do. Things may be hard but be independent. When I was pregnant my baby father was a sad case. He took a girl upstate and spent on her while im home suffering. After I had a miscarriage I left him alone. Now he wants me back.

[baby_9_3_2013]

:P key his tires

[NancyAnn7]

Good for you! I'm happy that you stood up for yourself.

[Trishaun]

Well thank all y'all he came home around 6 yesterday and seen all his stuff at the door and was like this is how your going to do me and he started begging me to let him stay but I can't do it no more it hurts but this is watt got to happen he agree to still drop our son off to school win he get off from work and that all I ask of him thank y'all

[Margo06]

I agree with Lexi, if the vehicle he is driving is in your name, report it stolen!! Don't give in when you see because he doesn't need to be let off the hook so easy. Stick to your word and pure his stuff outside of the door and see if your landlord can change the locks for you. Also leave for a few days so he doesn't harass you. Good luck girl!!

[Leximama93]

If he seriously left town without telling you then it would be best to just pack all his stuff up and leave it outside the door and change the locks... Maybe stay some place else for a few days and he can figure out himself what to do with his stuff. And if I were you and the car he took was in my name I would sure as hel.l report it stolen. They police would find out where he is for sure.

[shawnastone]

Let us know what happens! Id so do the same thing. Kick his a$$ out! Don't even cry over it because you deserve so much better then him!

[Waywey47]

Strong girl!!  hopefully that teaches him a lesson if not then forget it... Change the locks!

[breccans_mommy]

Hahahahahahahaha agreed^^^^* that will teach him a lesson... Karma is a b word!

[NancyAnn7]

Good for you! I still say you call the police and state that your ex took your car and you have no idea where he is.

[breccans_mommy]

Good for you !!!!!!

[Trishaun]

No I still don't know wa he's at I talked to his moma and she said she thought he was going out of town for his bday and thought I was with him that's why she took our lil boy out of town with her I'm so mad and we live together but apt is in my name and the car and truck is also in my name it's all for me but win I get my hands on him it won't be nice thank all y'all for yal advice win and if he come home he's going to see all his stuff at the door I am done

[Waywey47]

I would have left his aaaazzz if u were you. It's hard but there's no need to be living with someone who doesn't even respect his pregnant gf.. He didnt even say bye to you, he sneaked out while u were sleeping. Once they start fooling around with others that's it.. He can have fun with his "friend" all he wants but you'll have the kids and if u can get him to pay child support, don't let him off easy lol well that's what I would do..

[Fairymary]

Did you ever find him?

[NancyAnn7]

I agree with Vro. I know even with Verizon you can go on and look at the numbers that were called/texted. If no one knows where he is, call the police and tell them he's been gone for 24 hours and no one can get ahold of him. I would be very upset if I was you. But know that you need the best for you and your baby. Maybe see if you can stay with a friend for awhile.

[vro1991]

If he has been missing for more than 24 hours call the police and report him missing lol. Is the car in your name? Report it missing as well. The police will find him. Also if he has at&t you can go online and look at the latest numbers he called/texted. Sprint may do it too im not sure. But i would go on there and start calling every number dialed/texted between 8 am and 11 when he left. If not hits there go back even further

[breccans_mommy]

I agree but what proof do you need? There's no excuse in the world that can justify not speaking to your PREGNANT girlfriend for 24 + hrs. Your feelings are your worst enemy right now, chances are if he's doing this now things will only get worse so it probably won't last regardless, he's clearly not ready to be a responsible father and there's nothing you can do to change it, I would get rid of his *** and focus on myself and baby, clearly he doesn't give a flying f#%& about you or the baby so why in gods name does he deserve even the slightest chance ? Mark my words my friend if you allow this behavior now your only opening the door for him to continue to disrespect you and your baby, you stay with him if he even has the odasity to pull this your only causing yourself and baby more harm then anything

[Sammiegirl28]

Do you have any of his family members number? That would be what I would try. I.want to tell you to just pack your bag and leave, but I know that's really hard. Especially without hard proof, but maybe consider it.

[Trishaun]

His phone is still on I don't have his friend number I went driving to look for his car could not find it it's been over 24 hours I have not seen him and I'm really pissed to the max if I see him Idk wat I'm going to do I'm so lost

[breccans_mommy]

Ya there's no reason for that.... Is his phone on or has it been off the whole time.... Maybe something happened to him? He better hope something happened to his *** because doing stuff like that could be really harmful to his health lol you just don't do that to a pregnant lady

[AnnieBrooke]

I just read your other post, the one about texting some other girl.  Honey, it is over.  I am sorry.

Go to the lawyer's and put together the paperwork for child support.

[AnnieBrooke]

I guess in your shoes I would start packing, either his stuff or mine depending on whose name the lease is in (pack the person's whose name is not on the lease).  If you're the one leaving, stay with your mom a while until you can arrange your own place.  If he is the one being kicked out, put his stuff outside and change the locks, and go for a nice couple of days somewhere else so he can't yell through the door.  

It doesn't sound like he is there for the relationship any more.