partner not talking to me

[tinkeringaround]

Ok so my partner doesnt want anybody to know that im pregnant yet im 19 weeks and not showing at all. I told his sister that im expecting and she was texting me about scan pictures and when my partner asked who it was I said his sister was texting about work. A little white lie I know but he would have been mad about me telling his sister. So now he hasnt spoken to me in days not even to respond to a question I ask him. I cant talk to him because he says all that comes out my mouth is bulls**t so thats why he's not talking to me. I want to go back to normal so bad but dont know how. Please no negative comments about him being a d**k or anything just constructive comments please. I want to be with him so much still im willing to wait.

[blc992]

Was the pregnancy unplanned by any chance? I'm having similar problems with the father of my unborn however me and him aren't together. This is very difficult for him also and probably hard to process. He probably isn't sure how to tell people.
Just give him time, granted time is running out before you start showing but you just need to sit down and talk like adults and ask him to explain why he doesn't want people knowing, afterall he can't hide if forever. If he's willing to stay around for the baby, go easy on him, hes probably scared.

[proudFTMTeTe]

Has he said why he doesn't want anyone to know???