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bf/hubby creeped out during sex...

Ok who else has a bf or hubby who claim to be creeped out or turned off by having sex with a pregnant woman? It makes me very sexually frustated...and all I think is okay you are going to knock me up and the deny me of sex...what b u l l sh I t lol
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My fiancé is turned off by the fact that at one of my appointments a couple weeks ago, my doctor checked me and said I feel baby is head down, he is completely freaked out! He doesn't wanna poke baby lol! And now that I'm almost 38 weeks, I want sex to help me dilate!
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Me being prego turns my husband on more....lol I have to turn him away cause I feel huge and hate people " meaning my husband " seeing me nude I have never felt comfortable about it and when I'm huge and prego he's even more turned on....lol he's a weirdo
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Mine is creeped out... but if he won't have sex then his mouth can do the work cause I hate being sexually frustrated... lbs
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Lol mine is loving it! I'm sorry yours is being weird ;( it was so weird as soon as He saw me grab my belly because it was bouncing too much he finished hahaha wow tmi
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If you think of the animal kingdom its kinda what there ment to do lol pregnante and there's no need for extra contact for fear of causing injury lol . my suggestion adult toys for you lol he will get jealous and suck it up or not either way you'll get something lol
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I understand hotmess mine is deployed as well he left the week after we found out we were expecting.
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Him on*
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Haha my hubby is like @baby2mommy hubby..wants it all the time! The bump turns him, I can't do anything without him thinking we should go have sex lol oh well guess I can't complain about my man wanting me haha
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You ladies should just be happy that your men are around. I'm 22+4 and mine has been deployed to Afghanistan since I was 10 weeks. I wish sex or no sex was the most of my worries at this point...not worrying every minute of the day about his safety, going through a pregnancy totally alone and knowing he won't be back until our baby is 3 months old...ijs...appreciate the lil things while you have them...
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5371784 tn?1370824532
I feel bad for women who have guys that get creeped out....I cant keep mine off me!! Thats all he ever wants! We fight he wants sex we go grocery shopping n I walk ahead to grab item he starts looking at my butt n then thinks bout sex! I'm not ever in the mood though. I get turned off by my own body instead!!
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My husband doesnt freak out at all .. Im the 1 saying no to him idk why i dont wanna have sex.. I love it but not at this point ..hes acting comprehensive hope he is
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4456535 tn?1355894638
Agh! Mines is the same i hate it.. my bf is like no what if she kicks me but of course he wants a b/j sorry tmi but it gets me frustrated its like damn you get me preggo n now its like im gross
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My boyfriend was the same

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. I'm just upset that I have to be sexually frustrated and he goes and watches other women to fulfill his needs. :/ but I also think there more to it rhen oh im just horny...turn on the porn. He looks up porn to see new women... ughh.
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5176007 tn?1371145679
I'm just 34 weeks and we only got our sex life back a week ago because he was so scared of putting me into early labour even though everything is perfectly fine. He's so funny.
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5268435 tn?1367082384
We are only doing doggy style because he felt her butt sticking out during missionary and that was that.
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Bump
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Haha so true last time we tried.the baby kicked and the hubby felt it just before we started and it freaked the hubby out
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5002615 tn?1366014009
Yesss ! Mines is like that lol the last time we had  "sex" we didn't really do it. -.- now he won't even touch me after that. I don't even want to ask him for it makes me feel bad about myself or like i bother him
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Mine was a little creeped out but as soon as i turned 37 weeks and the whole water breaking/dialation/baby dropping talk started hes totally freaked out.
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