pregnant or misscaried?

[uhhello]

Just to let you know I DID NOT have sex. But my boyfriend fingered me & I remember his hands being sticky,
He went pee before it happened like 3 minutes before. Well about 2 weeks after I had morning sickness, I gained a little bit of wieght(which is odd for me, I'm underweight) & I felt nauseated. I was gonna talk to my boyfriend but the night I planned to we broke up, so I shook it off..That day which was 2 1/2 weeks after it happened I noticed some weird stuff on my underwear like odd discharge. The day I did a cheerleading stunt & I fell hard on the ground & I noticed a I had some blood clots & some white stuff. I noticed like this circle kinda thing it was really small. Do you think I had a early miscarriage or am I pregnant from his precum or something? please help, should I tell him?

[MamaAmber]

Im am 15 and 17 weeks pregnant.  My mother is an Obg/yn.  I came along this and asked her about it she said there no way possible that you can be pregnant from being fingered. Its impossible. But on the other hand she also said make an appt and find out whats wrong because the symtoms your having are not normal , but if you did not actually have SEX then it kinda impossible to be pregnant.  Good luck to you :)

[Bri_1985]

I wasnt snapping on her - mainly on an obvious lack education in that area. Which isnt her fault but the parents or the school if they still offer sex ed

[maybaby19]

I agree with baby2...keep it to yourself until you take a test, or share it with an adult you trust. Im sure health departments also havea sex Ed class or book that could help you prepare for future situations. Please just be careful and good luck! Things happen, but if you take the right precautions, you may be able to put them off for awhile :)

[baby2_on_the_way]

I doubt you are pregnant but please buy a home pregnancy test to be sure. I would not suggest telling your ex until you are absolutely positive, because at a young age he will tell his friends and they will tell more friends and then you wont only be explaining the situation to your parents, but to teachers and guidance councelers and all the other kids in your school. it is important that if you aren't going to talk to your parents that you find a program for free birth control or an aunt or adult that you can trust. DONT TRUST YOUR FRIENDS OR YOUR EX. THEY WONT HAVE REASONABLE ANSWERS BECAUSE THEY ARE TOO YOUNG TO THINK LOGICALLY AND KEEP THEIR MOUTHES SHUT. good luck dear. I hope you find all the answers you are seeking and are more careful in the future! if you need further info please message me

[mommytobe062013]

Yes sonya...i agree. Snapping on her is NOT helping...AT ALL. None of u are her parebts so u should not be telling her wat she should and shouldnt be doing. U dont kno wat her life is like so u should not judge. Period.

[sonya313]

No one has to be rude... Shes 14 RELAX. she obviously came here for help not to be judged.. its her life, if she wants to do sexual things.. what is it to you?! .. generations get worse every year, get over it...

[Kimejo_81]

If you are old enough & responsible enough at 14 to have sexual encounters of ANY kind you need to be responsible enough to talk yo your parents and explain what your concerns are. They will be able to give you far better advice than we can. As they know you! Good luck.

[miley24]

u can not get prego if a guy finered u holy jeez i would have 100 kids by now like nooo ur 14 stop doing things with men wait till your old enough if you think your pregnant off of that then u shouldnt be doing anything at all thats riduculous im sorry but wow

[Bri_1985]

Oh lord what do they teach kids these days?

[maybaby19]

If you guys honestly didnt have sex then you arent pregnant.

[MayDay5_2013]

I highly doubt you are pregnant from the sound of it. Just because he went to the restroom to pee doesn't mean pre- *** is automatically on his hands. Your too young to have sexual encounters just wait until you are older and You won't have to worry.

[LalaLenny]

His hand were sticky from his sperm or from fingering u? If it was just ur wetness then u cant be pregnant.

[Kyky23]

Stop posting the same thing because you didn't like the advice we gave you before. You're 14 go talk to your parents! That's the best advice for your age. I'm not trying to be mean but you need to be responsible at this point. If you can't handle the possible outcome of being sexual whether you had sex or not then don't do anything! Pre-*** can still get you pregnant!

[mommytobe062013]

I sent u a message

[beauty12]

First u need to get a home pregnancy test done... If u hve doubts thn thy will clear up.. N yes with precum women do get pregnant.. I m not sure abt yr situation bt u cn always perform a test to clear up confusion..