opinions *help*

[sanchiwi89]

scared and anxious here!  32+3 days tomorro and been told i have Obstretic choleostitis well if my bile acids shot up they deliverin me at 37 weeks *fine cos classed as full term* im a ftm n they said if they rise too high n dnt del at 37 he cud b still born!!! f**k well also got told if go down tha they will leave him in!! well tbh idk bout u guys but high bile or not a dnt want a stillborn!! i think at 37 wk i shud demand induction!!???? wud u do same cos im scared for my baby i dnt care if they do go down *acids* i want t keep him safe nt risk!!!
sorry for rant scared ftm

[Clysta]

Don't apologize for being concerned, it's nothing to apologize for. It's just important to breathe and take things a day at a time. Yes your levels MIGHT get high, but they can also just as easily not. This is why you'll be monitored and watched, and if something does happen the odds of your baby being hurt are not that high. You would be amazed at how fast a c-section can be done in an emergency.

[sanchiwi89]

sorry jus concerned :( thanks for advice i was jus stressing! my little man is so precious and i kno tha they will do right by me n my baby boy jus had to ask opinions :) its stressfull not knowing. thank you for advice x

[Clysta]

Breathe. If you're concerned, get a second opinion. Yes, doctors make mistakes (they are human) but they do know for the most part what they're doing. They're not just going to monitor your levels and when they're low stop - it doesn't happen that way. They'll continuously do it until you give birth.

[sanchiwi89]

doc told me if my acids r high them chances r very high for stillbirth cos its dangerous for them!! i have weekly appointmentd but they seem t jus say we will monitor u and i hate worrying bout my little man!! these guys r useless and if they say ok we are happy wiv ur.bile results but.then they shoot up they might miss it n i cnt risk that!! :'( its too scary for me and i kno they professionals but trust me iv seeeeen so many make mistakes!!! they are nt always right which scares me more

[Clysta]

Well... While the claim that 37 weeks is 'full term' this isn't a magical or safe number. Babies grow at different rates and dating is far from exact. So for an example say your baby is growing a week or so behind (which is perfectly normal) and you gave birth at 36 weeks 5 days - your baby would actually only be 34-35 weeks, and could easily require a NICU stay. The last weeks are vital for newborns, as this is when their lungs develop, when they learn to swallow, and when they put on most of their fat. While this can be dangerous, there's still a lot that's unknown about what it does to the baby and the harm it can cause. Your odds of stillbirth in a typical pregnancy are around 1:200 - try not to freak out, this is a common thing during pregnancy and your doctors know how to treat it. Talk to them about your concerns and see how they want to handle it.