problems

[Katiexoxo]

So im a ftm but my bf isnt a ftd. He alrdy has a 4yrboy old son. At first he seemed rly interested in all my pregnancy stuff but now he just seems annoyed and like he doesnt want me talking about it. Is the first baby the only one thats special?

[Katiexoxo]

It all changed once his son moved back in with us(he was staying with his mother til we got our new house bc we needed more room) but im just worried that baby will come n his first born will still be more important that new baby. He used to get mad that i didnt schedule my appts on his days off so i switched my next one so he could go n now hes saying hes just gonna drop me off n take his son out. It rly ***** :(

[kategram88]

I was told the Same thing that men don't really bond or care untilled it's here and they can hold it Hope it's true or ill be one single mommy.. no way will my daughter ever wonder if daddy loves her.

[Leobaby2013]

Whew! im glad im not the only one! im so sorry your going through this, especially becuase i know exactly how you feel. my babys dad has three daughters already. i had my first US a few days ago and we ended up getting into an arguement because he didnt even ask how the apt. went. so i ended up breaking down telling him that i see how much he loves his daughters and i just want that for our baby, unfortunately it hasnt changed anything.

Someone once told me that a mom becomes a mom when she find out shes pregnant. A dad doesnt become a dad until he sees the baby. Just give it some time and im sure hell come around and get excited.

In the mean time, dont let him spoil your mood. have fun and try to enjoy tyour pregnany. your not alone.

[kategram88]

Heck my bfs even informed me that if he has his son on the day I go into labor he will be at home with his son.while I have her. I think once they have been threw it it doesn't matter to them at all. Its kinda annoying

[kategram88]

I know how u feel my bf has a boy and seems like all him and his family think about is his son makes me feel like our daughter wnt matter they never mention her then he pops off with I'm jealous of a 2 year old little boy when all I want is my daughter to not feel neglected I'm 29 weeks my bf hasn't been to one of my apts

[moma2Eli]

I'm a ftm also. But my bf has a 8yr old daughter and 5 yr old son:) he's excites about having a new son:) but I feel like all the little details that I get excited about he's not so interested. Like today I seen my tummy move for the first time cause he kicked so hard! I got soooo excited an told him to watch for it again but he wasnt no where near as excited as I was. Guess since they've already been through it,  its nothing new to them like it is for us. Doesn't mean thier not happy tho!:)

[Kimejo_81]

Not at all!! I'm on #4 and still super excited. This is #2 biologically for my DH and he is still as excited for this one as his first we had 17 mo ago. But sometimes guys just get disconnected. Doesn't mean he doesn't care. Could be any # of reasons he's distant abt it. Have u tries talking to him abt how you feel??