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I nid help concernin my pregnancy

I'm 23yrs,plannin 2get in2 d university. I'm a week pregnant and my bf said he isnt ready yet cos it wasnt planned. My parents are goin 2 kill me if i tel them that i'm pregnant. I have nobody 2 help me, and i would really like to keep this pregnancy but i dont even have anyone to help me. My bf wants me to remove it, what should i do? Cos i'm very confused
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If you don't feel right about abortion then don't do it. You will never regret it. You'll always think of what could have been. Babies are never easy even when planned.
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This is your baby as well. If you want this baby then be selfish...your parents may be angry at first but i am sure they will come round. Why dont you go to the doctor and talk to someone in confidence. Hope everything is sorted xx
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Ow can i kip a pregnancy dat i cnt take care of? My parents wil send me away. It is easier said than done. I don't av anybody to confide in and d only doctor i can talk to, supports my bf's decision. I wouldn't want 2 have a child that would suffer, and also be rejected. I am trying to get a job but right now, i am nt feeling strong. If only u were in my shoes, u would know what am passing through. Right now, i'm alone in this world. If only i could run away, but, to where?
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i kno how u feel.  im in my 2nd yr of college and a week ago i found out im prego. i dont work right now, my parents will be real angry & my bf doesnt even wana be in the picture. but if u strongly feel that u dont wana get rid of it then u gotta be strong at this point.  there are programs to help u thru out ur pregnancy.  im applyin for mediaid for my pregnancy since i wont have insurance no more.  any parent will be mad but they will learn to accept things as they are.  dont give up.
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Any parent, but sincerely, nt mine. I'm 4rm a country in africa and its not easy when it comes to survival. U hardly get jobs here, even graduates, are looking 4 jobs. I tink i'm goin 2 remove it, even as it hurts, i don't have a choice else my baby and i wil die of hunger. Tnx 4 ur advice, i really appreciate it.
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