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8970202 tn?1401178809

How do you deal with a miscarriage?

I'm not even pregnant yet but I'm terrified of it happening, and deeply paranoid that it will happen to me. I'm the sort of person who gets attached very quickly.

I don't know how I'd recover, how I'd deal with the pain of it, if it happened.

I was wondering if I could hear about the experiences of people who have miscarried - and survived... if they're willing to talk about it.
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Hia I had a miscarriage in march it was very upsetting as been trying 2 years to fall pregnant but there is nothing anyone can do to stop it if it going to happen I already have a 4 year old son and currently pregnant again but had bleeding with this pregnancy alredy abd am only 5 weeks 2 day got a scan in 11 day to make sure everything okay but try nit to worry yourself it is a quite common thing and you will survive you dont release how strong you are till it happens good luck on falling pregnant :)
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7552771 tn?1469929649
^^^ tiarose don't be scared. It happens but you have to stay positive. A lot of women are scared of them but this is my second pregnancy and the thought of losing the baby never even crossed my mind at all. I stay positive about everything and so should you.
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Omg u guys r scaring me!
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8970202 tn?1401178809
I really hope the bad luck ends for all of you really soon. I can't even imagine how much it would hurt.
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8970202 tn?1401178809
Thank you all so much for sharing your experiences with me. You are all so brave.
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I had a full term stillborn almost five year ago. And a miscarriage in Aug of last year. I cried and and got depressed around my due date. But you have to take things day by day. There is hope and try to let that be the last thing on your mind. I'm 30 weeks 3 days.
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Everyone deals differently. I have been pregnant 4 times including right now and they all ended in miscarriage like the dr believes is going to happen this time as well. I cry a lot because I get attached and I also become resentful to all the people with kids or who are pregnant. I also become short with people not intentionally but I thinks it's because I feel I'm failing at something I want soooo bad and as a woman should be able to do. I have a 4 year old step son and my fiancé and I have been trying for 1 1/2 to have our baby stick. (2 miscarriages last year and one 2 years ago)
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Just pray about it, cast your fears on Jesus.
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