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[teenmom7512]

Some women on here I think try to scare the younger girls and some are so rude. We are all pregnant here and here to help one another. I agree it does get a little annoying when people ask am I pregnant questions, but they may not have anyone else to ask especially the younger girls. I've seen a few girls that are 15 on here and I know they just need some questions answered. I'm on my 3rd pregnancy and I'm still learning new things are being pregnant. Just drives me nuts when people wanna be rude about it.

[Jessika20]

I agree yes the am I pregnant questions do get annoying but I just scroll past them an yes the woman that are already mommies should know a lot of things but you know what I'm on my second baby an I too am still learning things. We all have dumb questions an we all have good ones. If you don't like what they have to ask then ignore their post. No need to be rude. An if your not trying to be rude an it comes out that you are just try to explain yourself so they understand you didn't mean to be rude because I know I wouldn't like it. Especially if I'm 15 an have nobody else to turn to. Yes 15 is a young age to have a baby because they still themselves are babies but don't judge them if they wanted that they would of went to their parents. Their here for help an advice.

[OctoberBaby5]

Another think I do think its inappropriate is when girls say "not to be mean or rude but.." and then they say something mean and think its okay bc they said not to be mean first, its still rude lol  

[OctoberBaby5]

I do agree there is a difference between being realistic and being rude all im saying is sometimes it really isnt rude people just get offended easily like ill give an honest answer with absolutely nothing disrespectful or rude or making fun or anything just plain out trying to help and girls get offended so I think sometimes its just about how you word your answer? *for lack of a better word* or sometimes people just see thinks differently :)

[teenmom7512]

I know right?? Call it being realistic or whatever you want, but rude is rude. I'm like if your gonna be ***** to the poor girl don't look at the questions. Everyone has enough going on with be pregnant and everything. The last thing I'd want is someone bitching at me when I'm trying to ask an honest question.

[ftm502]

Rude is rude. If a question annoys you skip it dont answer. The am I pregnant questios canbe be aannoying because we all know if your late or having symptoms or having unsafe sex. U should take a test. But if u have to be rude or childish enough to post lol at someones legitimate question just dont answer or read it.

[OctoberBaby5]

I dont think we mean to be rude most times especially the already moms they just already have been trough it so they know realistically how it is and theyre just real about it, some girls dont like the reality of it and get offended easily but really we are just plain honest and not sugar coat it, sometimes I say things on here that are not rude but realistic and people get offendedd but its better they know how it really is.. it is scary for every first time mom not just teens.. some people do do that though but not a lot