I found out at exactly 19weeks but my lil man spread them wide for us lol my mom was thrilled it was her birthday and we laughed saying it was his way to say happy birthday to his nana :)
I found at at 17+3 with both my pregnancies
Your doctor won't tell you until around 20 weeks unless they have a high resolution ulrasound and might be able to see it around 16 weeks but they often won't confirm it until you are 20 weeks. I've read on her a lot of women finding out super early but usually they pay for the ultrasound at a private clinic.
Im 12 weeks i was.hoping ill.be.able to know now
From 16weeks or so.. If you're lucky it could be a couple weeks early. In the UK they won't tell you the sex until around 20weeks.
I think they can at 16 weeks but my Dr didn't give me ultrasound to find the gender till 20 weeks