romance!!!

[rachaelbutsch]

So you know how if Ur married for a bit your sex either stays the same gets boring or stops .. well mine and my hubby got boring until recently now we have the passion back in it.. but its like the romance is completely gone in our marriage so my question is how do I get it back but by making it his idea I've been dropping hints but still nothing. I dontbwanna force him into a romantic night I want him to want to do it so any ideas ladies???

[rachaelbutsch]

Haha Imma  try it seems like fun if u ask me

[Cassie_rondo]

Hole

[Cassie_rondo]

Haha I do it all the time and sometimes my husband play sleep so I don't stop lol.  Just got slow when pull them down or slide it thee the whole .

[rachaelbutsch]

Haha I would so do that but if I pull his boxers down hell know And wake up

[Cassie_rondo]

I say top him off while he's sleep. That SHOULD Start A Fire

[Mommy_Daddy_2]

Yes dont say stuff like that as men tend to get defensive when they feel we are placing all the blame on them.

[rachaelbutsch]

Okay so basically avoid well u use to write poetry but now u don't. Stuff like that?

[Mommy_Daddy_2]

Try to be like I feel like we've lost the romance and u would love to have it back. Remind him how much you love him and try really hard not to use sayings like because you did or you didn't that way he doesn't feel like you are putting all the blame on him. I've written hundreds of letters lol its easier when I write it down vs trying to talk because I tend to say mean things without really meaning it

[rachaelbutsch]

I have talked he said he would but still nothing by a know men are dense I've been with mine for about four years now but I haven't tried the letter thing yet but I wouldn't know where to start without sounding like I'm complaining ya know.

[Mommy_Daddy_2]

Men are dense I've been with my hubby almost 10 years you need to sit down and talk to him. They Dont get hints lol. If you dont wanna talk to him write a letter and slip it in his pants pocket before he goes to work that way he reads it while he's gone and has time to think about it.

[rachaelbutsch]

Bump