No i didnt have n e thing they said i needed a little slice so her head would come out but he ended up cutting me wayy more then ibwas supposed to be it was a horrible experience.. He didnt tell me he was cutting me he had jus sliced i am so scared to do this again..
Tell them you would rather tare. Healing is MUCH easier from a natural tare. Sometimes doctors can be aggressive with episiotomies. Did you have vacuum or forcep assisted delivery that would require such a deep episiotomy?
I have the same fears my son is six but.my scar is still very sensitive and I don't wanna tear or be cut in the same spot but I dont want a new scar either