i need to tell my bf that I'am not getting an abortion

[braishel]

My bf says i need to get an abortion, but i don't want to. I have my first ultrasound on the 15, any ideas on how to do it? I need your support and help.

[Bella1296]

I was in your position last week,infact he was bullying me into it and getting his friend and his friends mum to mail me through Facebook telling me im stupid for carrying on with this and that I should get rid because the dad wasn't happy, the truth is,you need to be straight with him and tell him,look we made this baby and its growing inside me therefore it is more my choice if I want to carry on with the pregnancy or not and you won't do something you don't want to because for one,you may never ever forgive him, and for two, you will always have to live with what you have done and be forever wondering what it would of being like if you hadn't of done what your boyfriend said to do. if hes a real man he will come to terms with the fact this baby isn't going anywhere and its what you want to do, he should of thought about the consequences before making a baby with you, I was so angry at my boyfriend when he told me to get one aswell. now im 8 weeks tomorrow and a week after all the stress and upset he caused me he seems to of come round to the idea! he will have to do the same with you or he will loose his little family, make sure you tell him how you properly feel and why you cannot do what he wants. its not his choice,its your body and your baby growing inside you, never do something people want you to do, only YOU know whats best. x

[solemomma6]

Just be honest and clear. Tell him you have no intentions of getting an abortion and that he needs to make his choice on if he is going to stick around or not.  Explain your reasonings for not wanting/ getting an abortion. Its your body hun and no one can make that decision for you, he will have to realize that. Hope it works out the way you want it to.

[marie8736]

Simply tell him ur not getting an abortion. If he asks why tell him.. But its ur body.. My bf at first was super pissed wanted me to get an abortion and didnt talk to me for 2 months about on and off and here we are 33 weeks and 4 days later and were super happy and hes excited.. Good luck

[GordonBaby]

Tell him you are not comfortable with an abortion. This may risk him sticking around hun... but if you  want your baby and your ready to possibly do this alone then it will be okay. Having a child alone is no walk in the park but its totally possible.

[delyayle]

^^ Kristen is right. Do not let him make you feel pressured to do it. If you don't wan to then don't.

[mommygg]

Agreed ^^^

[kristennicole612]

tell him you are keeping the baby, its your body, your decision. if he doesnt want to take responsibility for his actions, thats his problem, and youd be better off with out him.