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[kaaysummerlove]

would it be weird if my babys father and i lived in the same house together to raise "our" baby together but then not be in a relationship? would things even work out that way.

[Kolina24]

Aww he sounds sweet. Maybe he is the kind of guy you need, sounds like you have bren through a lot.

[kaaysummerlove]

then just these past 3 months, i decided to give us a try.. we fight lots! but he always makes everything better in the end.. hes super supportive, i just dont know sometimes.. i think he deserves so much better! im a horrible gf.. i put him through alot.. i have bad breakdowns, im always so mad&mean to him, try push him away but then again hes always right there! holding me, telling me its ok.. and he stays there holding me until i cry&calm down.. hes to much of a good guy for me, growing up i had nobody.. in and out of foster care, trusted nobody, i think its cause of my past why im so angry all the time, i dont want to be mad anymore, i want to be happy and make him happy.. i want to have a happy little family, but im scared ill be a bad mom and etc.. im due on 19 days! so hopefully all goes well until then.

[Carmen1990]

I think he would b a good dad if he can respect u from the beginning you should give it a try if it is what u both want I wish u luck and I hope everything works out for u both :)

[kirstenthecat]

Well maybe u should gve him a chance. A baby always needa a father figure

[kaaysummerlove]

hes a really good guy! we talked over the internet for awhile before we actually met.. we got a long just fine then, then when we finally met in person.. we got pregnant the very first time a few weeks after that, hes my cousins uncle from her dads side, we uses to joke around and talk about me and him being together waaay before me and him even made contact, she told me alot of good things about him.. anyway, hes been there since day 1 finding out i was pregnant, i always pushed him away cause i was scared of having a baby with someone i didnt know.. the first 4-5 months of my pregnancy he respected that i didnt want anything to do with him, we didnt have very much contact with eachother, he stayed away when i wanted him to, he was right there when i needed someone,

[AshPotter]

If you get on well and there's no upset around yeh fact your not together then go for it! Better having the both of you there too support each other and be there for the baby. If it doesn't woke out atleast you tried and you might surprise yourself and end up happy together again xxx

[britt423]

It takes a lot of strength but if you feel like you could do it, i think it would be a good idea. As long as he isnt physically or emotionally abusive to you.

[Ohbebebaby]

People do it all the time. Live your life Sweetie,  and ensure that he'll be there to help with your Baby ♥

[befree03]

I think you should give it a shot.that's what the father of my children and i did after I had my 2nd and we ended up working on things and now we're engaged expecting our third .

[missb94]

Nope, not if you think it could work :)
Just give it a go if that's what you want to do :)

[proudFTMTeTe]

I think it would b a lil weird my opinion..
U can co parent without living together then at least you guys can still have your own personal lives