significant other and pregnancy

[misskee09]

This is my first baby im 22 14+4 and my baby father is 29 also a first time parent. He is not very helpful and understanding he wants to have sex all the time and its not comfortable or I just dont have the drive to, my hormones changing im emotional and he dont care how he treat me, talks to alot of females and dont see a problem but loves me and say y do he have to suffer(go without sex) thats what the other females are for. And it stresses me out and I cry alot about it and I know its not good for the baby. Is anyone else have a problem with the other being there in the pregnancy?

[Miyanasmom]

I don't have a significant other but I will say don't put yourself through anything that makes you hurt... when u hurt your baby hurts... Don't stress over him enjoy your baby being in your tummy think about all the cute things and wonderful faces your baby will make... stay strong throw your cape on and do what you gotta do for u and ya baby telling u to leave is what Im not going to.do but I will ask how much longer are you going to deal with the B.S before you say enough is enough... don't have your baby around B.S it's not healthy

[misskee09]

I talk and cry everyday about it he knows he just dont care how I feel and its far from joking with him

[KDQ]

I think you need to talk to him about it. My husband isn't really all that understanding about me not wanting sex anymore either. I really never turned him down until I got pregnant because now I just don't have the drive. I threw him a few freebies but he realized I just wasn't into it so he let up. Once we talkes he was more understanding. You should tell your man it's not okay to make jokes like that.

[misskee09]

And he claims he gonna be the best father but I dont wanna hurt my baby like he hurt my coming in and out my life