single mother :(

[newmommy022515]

So me and my daughters father are no longer together.. I feel so lost and confused..
We are supposed to be working it out, but I think he's been seeing other girls. All of this is really hard on me. I'm terrified to be a single mother. He ses he will be there and get whatever she needs, but it won't be the same.. I'll be the one having to wake up in the middle of the night with her, I'll be the one taking care of her while she's sick.. I don't want to do this on my own.. I want to be with him more than anything, but I'm not sure if that's what he wants.. I need girls to talk too!!

[new_mom19]

My husband and I split for the summer like that. We were having constant issues and he ended up moving to another town wit another girl and I had to move in with a friend because I Had no family.  He was rude and aLways stuck up her butt but was involved with our sons appointments. After about a month of him being with her he started becoming more friendly.  By the second month out off the clear blUe he apologized and pretty much came crawling back to me. He left her for me and since August we have been back together.  Id say if u both plan on working it out then let him have his time as much as it will hurt,  and try to b friend or reasonable with him. It ***** but id say enjoy your freedom while u can. I did and after being surrounded by supportive friend it got easier. It will be hard but even if u stay single mommy then I'm sure u will do fine. Your baby will be relying on u since his/her father wasnt there.

[Reeses091]

I was the same way with my first child. Her dad isn't involved at all. you will do just great though!!! It is hard and no one wants to do it alone but it will all work out!! I am now 4weeks pregnant with another guys child and he is awesome!! So if its not meant to be with this dad then I am sure you will find the right guy soon!!

[Rena0111]

I am in the same situation.  It ***** & I NEVER in a million years thought I would be in this situation.