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baby daddies

Why the heck are some men so immature like seriously.....when a woman is expecting your baby you're suppse to respect her even more and be happy. Like idk wth to do anymore should i even let him know when i give birth? He doesn't bother to text me about the baby or anything in particular i was with this guy for 4 years and i been knowing him for 10 years he saw me go through everything when my brother past away...when i was in such a big depression like he was my best friend and now that i got pregnant he act like a stranger this ***** really bad. I wasted my years... and he isn't the person i fell in love with. ....is anyone else going thru pregnacy alone
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I'd also rather go it alone. The stress he is causing you is harmful to yourself and your baby. He should realize this and accommodate you even if he does not choose to be with you any longer. Try not contacting him and see what happens, he might realize he messed up and start acting right.  I feel like it takes more time for men to process life changing things. Maybe he is afraid? Idk but I'd give him the space he seems to want and focus on making yourself happy. Hang out with the girls or get a mani pedi. Treat yourself you're making a human you deserve it!
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Im 16 and im going through this alone :'(I cry all the time because I loved my baby daddy and now hes turned into the person he has always complained about hes a wimp who can't grow up and help raise his kid. Now I am the one who has to change only my whole life around to do what's right for my baby :'(
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Maybe things will turn around for you. Women become a mother the moment she finds out shes pregnant,  but sometimes it takes the baby being born and the man actually seeing or holding the baby to become a father. If he doesn't come around then that's his fault, just be the best mother you know how to be.
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Hope things work out but if not maybe you will be better doing it alone
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9243007 tn?1402936617
Keep living lol....  U haven't seen nothing yet but know u don't have to deal with that alsp
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I live with my bf but it feels like im doing this all by my self. Ita honestly killing me. Feeling super upset at the moment.  I just want to cry but I feel so weak when I do.
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Cause they got us Girls **** Up !  
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8565461 tn?1411955590
Yes..but honestly I'd rather go through it alone then deal with someone like that. Its not worth it hun you got this and there are women who will help as much as they can :)  
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7343521 tn?1402371959
Yup. It ***** but if theyre gonna treat us bad and not be there. . Then I'd rather be alone than get treated like that. .
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