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[Jen_Wes]

I'm 16weeks & 4days. Since I got pregnant, my bf & friends told me that I would want to have sex more and be in the mood all of the time... WRONG. I don't even wanna hear the word or want to cuddle cause I don't want it to lead to it. I'm really not ever in the mood anymore.  And whenever my bf tries to do it with me I really can't fake wanting do something that I don't want to do. So I just lie there. And my bf is taking it offensively. I really don't know how to tell him... I don't want him to try to find another girl to go make love to.

[Jen_Wes]

Thanks gals!

[almarr]

I was the exact same way.. my sex drive was like at -100 I felt bad but I rather pleased my husband in other ways. Than having some other girl do it. If you have an understanding partner like mine than its easy but I still did pleasure him.. am 21 weeks now and my sex drive came back. Sex is like Whooooh .. lol ;) It'll come and you'll b the one getting all offensive because hes too tired .. lol

[lovemyboys2]

i had to take my bf to the doctors with me and let him explain why i dont want any. he believed the doctor then and is a little more understanding

[ExpectingAndFirstTimeMom]

I'm the same way. I've looked stuff up about it, and from what I'm seeing it's normal and eventually you'll want to. Its probably caused from our bodies changing and preparing for the bundle of joy! Try explaining to him like how much your body is changing inside, and tell him it's really nothing you can control. :) Good luck!

[momof2expectingsept]

Try talking to him about it. I'm pretty sure he would understand. Your pregnant and your mood changes a lot. And I'm pretty sure he would take that in to consideration

[Munchkinn94]

Just explain to him that you don't feel well and maybe soon you'll start to feel better. My whole first trimester I just felt like poop and sex was a rare thing. But you're pregnant and he needs to understand that.

[Jen_Wes]

Advice please