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are you fixed?

Are any of you fixed?
How old were you?
How many children did you have first?
Do you regret it?

I'm 23, 31 weeks pregnant with my 3rd & I'm getting fixed. I'm scared that I will regret it because I always wanted a son. But my husband says no more kiddos. It is my choice to do this. I'm just scared I'll regret it afterwards.
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7915225 tn?1539215847
So once u do this there is no going back? What if u part ways n decide u want a baby with new partner? Hard decision. Hope u don't regret.
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My boyfriends stepdad got the snip after his son was born, and regretted it when his son was killed at age 11.
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He said he would get fixed I told him no.
His thing is supporting so many kids. 3 kids will be fine but he wants us to live comfortably not paycheck to check .that is why he don't want anymore . He said if we could ever afford to have it reversed we could afford more than 3 babies. I know its reasonable & as of now im fine with it. & I want to do it. Im just worried I'll regret it later on.
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4963258 tn?1395602072
I'm on my second and I will be getting fixed this time around, I'm 10 weeks as of now, but I have only ever wanted two kids... And my hubby already has 2 others so he will have a total of 4 and that is more than enough. lol
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He could get fixed instead ... My mom got fixed at 24 after 2. She always said that she wished she had more but realistically she couldn't afford it. She had no choice. But if she had the money she said she would have had 2 more.
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