boyfriend/babyfather issues(34-2)

[jaquesf]

so my bf just one day starts actin funny to me he want answer my calls/Txts n all this started wen i turnt 7months im 8 now going on 9 n 2weeks but he stays with me n one day he calls n says he wabts to c me but he can only stay for a hr n wen he cums he doesn't spend time with me n he takes his clothes well half of them i gt mad n start crying he say *** on im ready u gettin on my nerves he didn't stay nt even 1 hr so i txt him later n he says he loves me n he trying to get ready for the baby then he calls n says don't call/txt him the rest of the night im so emotional i just keep crying specialy at night im so lost wat do u guys think of this

[tiredtiny]

One thing u can tell him to do is at least answer ur call it text because u maybe having ur baby and no one truely knows if it'll come earlier than expected.

I'm going to try and give ur bf the upper hand and maybe he is trying to prepare for the baby?  He may be taking part of his clothes to make room for ur baby.
I take my clothes from my bfs house all of the time half and sometimes all.
And sometimes guys just don't like saying all their business, idk why but they're just weird like that. Who knows hexameter be constantly working or school to make a better life for you and the baby too.
Sometimes u have to go through hard times and situations to reap the rewards.

[jaquesf]

i hope i find my mister rte cuz he isn't him thank u so much

[Sundae254]

Being a single mother is def okay. Just cause you have a baby by someone doesn't mean yall are meant to be as long as he's in his child's life thats all that matters. My mom is a single mom, so is my sister, my aunts, and I know ppl who have been single mothers & doing just fine. I'm sure u love him but always love yourself & that baby more! Plus having a child doesn't keep good men away, some are not bothered by the fact u have a child and will treat him/her as if it were his own

[jaquesf]

i knw its because of my emotions i haven't completely left im so sensitive at this time it's like i wanr him to be in my son life so bad i take it all like i feel if i don't he'll leave n i dont want to be a single mother like my mom i mean my dad was there wen every i want my son to have his mom and dad togather

[Sundae254]

No honey don't ever allow a man to hit u... Been there done that and first it starts off with a push then hits then they begin to break or damage your belongings then they threaten ur life then next thing your face to face with him and a gun...and I say this cause I've experienced it all and never will again in my life... Plus ur bby doesn't need to be in an environment like that...know your worth..any man who puts they're hands on a women are cowards

[jaquesf]

he never want to talk i tried that in its like i knw i need to just leave him alone because he has anger issues and wen he gets mad because stuff dont go his way he trys to hit me he even punched me n the face wen i was 6/months  i feel so dumb for stayn with him after that but idk i love him but i gotta let him go fir my son

[Sundae254]

do what u feel is best, only u know you guys relationship we only get a teaspoon of what's actually going on... Just don't run behind no man no matter who he is or how much it may hurt, know your worth and don't settle for bs... I would be straight up with him...either we gonna get it together or he can go on about his business, let him see your serious & not a toy... Noone should be able to play with you as if u were... I still say he's being a jerk lol but do it the adult way and have a conversation with him about how u feel and the way he reacts should be ur answer on what u should do... Wish u the best of luck

[jaquesf]

i wanna just leave him alone but its so hard cuz we have been together for like for seven months str8 n its crazy cuz he been by myside every since i found out i was pregnant and then for him to just do this it makes me sad every day i try not to cll/txt him but i cant its hard  n then the days i am able to not call him he calls me n that just makes me start back clln him

[Sundae254]

& from what I'm getting by taking half if his clothes, he's either slowly moving out or staying with someone else... Since this started at 7 months and ur now 8 in a half ...

[mommyofaria]

I couldn't agree with her more!!!! Don't make him first when its clear your the last thing on his mind.

[Sundae254]

Now this is my opinion... He's being a total jerk, doesn't sound like someone who is trying to get prepared for a child but someone who is doing his own thing right now... He may love you but don't nobody just stop replying to you and when they see u say that your getting on they're nerves then tells u not to call or text him for the rest of the night... That's not cool at all!! Focus on u and that baby don't run behind no man babyfather or not!!