MY BLOOD TEST RESULTS

[kassie22]

so for everyobe who was so helpful during my lil meltdown I went to the doc, had my blood check ( for all those of you who forgot, i'm the one thats been on depo and started having all kinds of crazy preg s/s.Then all my s/s stopped it was wierd...... I WAS preggo. My blood results-- the levels were very low and kept dropping, and he said I was in the process of mc.
I'm now in the delima of telling my husband or not... I didnt tell him at first till I had the blood test results b/c i didnt want him to stress out over the "what if's".(he's very busy a lawyer). I dont need a d/c. I'm handeling everything very well. I finally told my best friend so I have her to talk to about this if I need too.
This preg. was not planned ( the depo failed me). But now I'm feeling like I may want to try to have a baby....

[leetlebeanweasle]

Oh his reaction was really sweet! :)

I am very sorry about your m/c but maybe it was a little unexpected push towards a baby! I wish you the best!

[kassie22]

thanks girls!! I ended up telling him.
after the initial shock, he was very supported ...
and he told me even tho he was so busy, he's secretly been wanting to have a baby, but b/c of my career he knew it wasnt the right time for us! but hey now we are both on the same page...

[onlyme27]

I am sorry to hear about your m/c.  I think that you should tell you husband.  Busy or not, he should at least be aware of it.  This is something that both of you need to go through together. A lot of women are afraid to tell their partners that they are preg out of fear of what they might think and say.  I know that even though my hubby was on board with TTC I was still nervous and scared to tell him about it.  I was afraid of his reaction.  With my son I was extremely scared to tell his father that I was preg.  To my surprise, he wasn't upset at all.  What I am trying to say is that you need to talk tohim about it. If you don't and you go though this alone, you might end up regretting it later on.  

[alaysha]

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Miscarriages are hard. My first pregnancy wasn't planned either but in my case it was the morning after pill that failed me. After I had a miscarriage I felt so sad and started to wonder if my body could even carry a baby. It was so strange because I was sad to loose something that before I even got pregnant was something I couldn't imagine having anytime in the near future. Needless to say I got prego 6 weeks later and now have a 3 month old daughter. I hope you get what you want whether its a baby or just peace of mind.