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someone Help Me Please :'(
I Am 15 And I Lost My Baby ' My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me When He Find Out ' I Want Another One ' But IDont Know What To Do. I Need A Positive Pregnancy Test So He Could Believe Me Than Get Pregnant Again Can Someone PLEASE HELP Me I Feel I'm Going To Dye.! :'(
It's so hard to read posts like this. I have a 15 year old daughter. She can't even make a sandwich for herself or clean up her room. I cannot imagine her taking care of a baby, sacrificing trips to the mall, to the movies etc. But she thinks she knows better than me :-) I truly don't think that you are ready yet. Do you have a job? Do you have money for diapers, clothes, formula, stroller, car seat, do you have a drivers license? How will you take your baby to the Dr? Are you ready for sleepless nights when the baby cries ALL NIGHT because of the colic? Please please please wait. Wait until you are ready to provide for your little one. Don't get pregnant for the selfish reasons. Get pregnant because you and your HUSBAND will want to raise the child together and go through the heartbreaks TOGETHER! God will bless you with a child when you are ready.
I am so sry for ur loss, but I have to agree with the above post. Lying to a guy like that is immature no matter how badly u want to be pregnant again. U r only 15. When I was 15 I was totally in love with this guy, when he dumped me I spent a year crying myself to sleep thinking I was gonna die. I look back now and laugh, n I'm so happy I'm not with him. Babies are blessings, but do understand that they change ur life and can cause a lot of stress in a relationship. Ur 15, enjoy being young n having fun! A baby requires attentive 24/7. That baby comes first. I know u probably think it would be great to have a cute cuddly baby and u n ur boyfriend will live happily ever after. That's not how it is. U two will hardly ever have alone time. Ur days n nights will consist of feeding, changing diapers, bathing, doing laundry. Leaving the house with a baby takes about 30 minutes cuz u have to pack everything n get baby ready. So those days of juz walking out the door are over. Don't get me wrong, I love being a mom. But I am also 26 and married. I couldn't imagine taking care of a baby at that age! N my husband n I have been together for years, n sometimes its not always easy. Someday u will have ur baby n a guy who is willing to work by ur side to keep ur family together. I'm not judging u at all! Hunny, in the mean time...just enjoy being 15!!
Im sorry you lost the baby, but reading your story and how you were going to try and get pregnant again just goes to show you are to immature to raise a child. Having a baby is more than just being pregnant. I dont think you realize how hard raising a child is.
Did you have an actual miscarriage or just pretend to be pregnant all together ?... p.s you'll be ok lol ! boys arent evrything
Thank-you so much guys ' and I stop and think and all of you guys are right I mean God know what he does and everything happens for a reson maybe I though I was ready but I'm really not ' when ever it my time its my time and well I learn you can't lye its just better to talk with true facts ' maybe I would it still be with him if I would it tell him the true or maybe there's someone better on my future waiting for me thank-you amoor much to all of you '!
babies certainly are precious gifts. and i'm glad you understand why he is mad. i understand you feel an opportunity is lost but remember that you didn't expect this. sadly the opportunity is now gone and you should do your best to return to your normal self. from what i read/figure you do have some growing and learning to do. enjoy life so that in the future you can show your child how to enjoy it too.
best of luck in the future, try to be honest and not lie to manipulate others. it doesn't improve life.
best of luck in the future, try to be honest and not lie to manipulate others. it doesn't improve life.
Honey you are young enjoy being young. A baby is soooo much work and I'm a firm believer in waiting for marriage. Havng a baby won't fix a relationship. Babies can add stress to a relationship. Enjoy life, go to college and accomplish your dreams while you can.
Its because he broke up with me because I lye to him ' with some pregnancy test because I didn't. Wanted to tell him I lost the baby ' I was planning to get pregnant again when I see him on next week but he left me because I lye to him he really did love me or does but I meat up and I understand why his mad ' he was going to collage and starting to save money for the baby, we were going to start going to the doctor together but than I mest up we were both really exited and happy because its a wonderful gift from God we knew we weren't ready but we could it pass through with our love 'we were planing on names and we would even imagine or life's with that little angle all I want his a baby ' but first I need to talk to him
hey there,
i see you are in need of some attention. though going into other peoples posts isn't a very nice way of getting it.
please, take a breath. just take a few deep breaths and clear your mind. you are going to get through this. keep telling yourself that when you feel down, you are most certainly going to get through this! you are in a fragile state and at a young age, so all these rushing hormones are very very confusing!! i remember being young and i can imagine how freaked out and stressed out you are. you are at a time in your life where every little thing feels monumental! trust me, your hormones will level out as you get older and you will realize its not such a huge deal to lose a boyfriend. especially one who splits when there is a little bit of trouble. you want someone who will stand by you. and who will go to doctors meetings with you. who will work two jobs so you can buy diapers and doesn't complain at all because of it.
i know this is rough and it seems like things are coming to an end, but they are only beginning! you will meet a great man one day and you will want to start a family after you have had some great adventures in life. create a strong relationship and grow together as a team before brining baby into the mix. babies are a great way to test relationships cause they can cause a lot of strain on relationships. so you want a man who is up for the challenge.
secondly, i know how you feel but you will not die and its not worth dying over. you are a healthy young girl and there is no reason why your next pregnancy will not be a success. i know this is not helpful to hear but your chances are good.
just breathe, talk to your best friend, or your mom even. its important to have a good support system when dealing with this sort of grief. i don't know what i would have done without my husband holding my hand through my similar experiences.
just take a deep breath, you will get through this.
i see you are in need of some attention. though going into other peoples posts isn't a very nice way of getting it.
please, take a breath. just take a few deep breaths and clear your mind. you are going to get through this. keep telling yourself that when you feel down, you are most certainly going to get through this! you are in a fragile state and at a young age, so all these rushing hormones are very very confusing!! i remember being young and i can imagine how freaked out and stressed out you are. you are at a time in your life where every little thing feels monumental! trust me, your hormones will level out as you get older and you will realize its not such a huge deal to lose a boyfriend. especially one who splits when there is a little bit of trouble. you want someone who will stand by you. and who will go to doctors meetings with you. who will work two jobs so you can buy diapers and doesn't complain at all because of it.
i know this is rough and it seems like things are coming to an end, but they are only beginning! you will meet a great man one day and you will want to start a family after you have had some great adventures in life. create a strong relationship and grow together as a team before brining baby into the mix. babies are a great way to test relationships cause they can cause a lot of strain on relationships. so you want a man who is up for the challenge.
secondly, i know how you feel but you will not die and its not worth dying over. you are a healthy young girl and there is no reason why your next pregnancy will not be a success. i know this is not helpful to hear but your chances are good.
just breathe, talk to your best friend, or your mom even. its important to have a good support system when dealing with this sort of grief. i don't know what i would have done without my husband holding my hand through my similar experiences.
just take a deep breath, you will get through this.
Don't get pregnant just to make some guy happy..and your only 15..!! If he doesn't want to be with you just because you had a miscarriage then you shouldn't be with him at all..he should of been there supporting you not just leaving you when something bad happen
Thank-you so much ' the thing us that he was so happy about it and his mom too ' but his mad now I was in a desperate situation si I got a positive pregnancy test from Google he found out because he saw the website and now idont know what to do ' I know he loves me and thasee what we more wanted I know I'm young but it felt so nice having and feeling the moment of being a future mom I want to get pregnant again '!
Thank-you so much ' the thing us that he was so happy about it and his mom too ' but his mad now I was in a desperate situation si I got a positive pregnancy test from Google he found out because he saw the website and now idont know what to do ' I know he loves me and thasee what we more wanted I know I'm young but it felt so nice having and feeling the moment of being a future mom I want to get pregnant again '!
I agree with parkersmommy, I would wait a few years before trying to get pregnant and have another baby….you are so young and have so much ahead of you. I don't know what you are going through and being so young must be hard also but it's best to get a good education and career to take care of a baby. I'm not judging you in any way just trying to give advice. Good luck!
Honey tricking a boy into being with you because you're pregnant is always a bad plan if he doesn't want to be with you you're better off without him and you certainly want to have a child with someone who wants to be with you. Also I'm not trying to preach or anything and I can't imagine how hard it is to lose a baby (even as young as you are) and I'm sure you are eager to have one but if I were you I would wait a few years to try again. Good luck honey.
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