too shy to ask/personal

[Aisi]

in 15weeks today. I have this curiousity if other pregnant women have the same i am having. Sex is so painful and never a pleasurable for me during this pregnancy. I got wet but this wetness is different from non-preggy, i mean its kinda some rough not sticky or soft juice so i think its adds up the pain. Anybody? Is it normal?

[June_11_2014]

Same here. I'm 31 weeks pregnant. Since I've found out I'm pregnant , me and my boyfriend have had sex like maybe 10 times this whole time! We used to have it at least 3 times a week. It doesn't feel good too me:( I feel bad because he thinks he's doing something wrong but it doesn't feel right so I never want to. Those 10 times I've done it, I didn't even enjoy it

[mariaahm]

I stop when it hurts me. Theres time i hate having sex and i just tell ma husband and hes very understandable.i think u should stop n do it when u feel comfortable.

[libellula]

I would ask your dr. Don't be shy, he/she has heard it all before. I find it hard to get "wet" like I normally did before. We also had to change positions or it hurt (at 14w). Just ask your partner to take their time with you and find what works. You have a lot going on down there and it can take a few tries to get used to it. Good luck hun

[crystalrcastle]

*whole area swells

[crystalrcastle]

I have this problem also and my doctor told me to try lubes etc. I did and it still hurt. My whole are swells up down there and the sex isnt even pleasurable. Im glad I have a hubby that doesnt push me to have sex or id be miserable! Doctor said I just wont be able to have sex during this pregnancy which is fine with me.

[kirstenthecat]

If it hurts STOP. you could cause damage.

[MsLedford]

I've got the same prob yes water based lube helps

[Aisi]

Oh thanks ladies, thought was alone and not normal. It really hurts and even i have to pretend its ok....doesnt take that long because its unbearable anymore.

[HannahJohnson]

I use lube. It still hurts and my cervix becomes very sore from sex. Its totally normal

[elocinin]

I am on no sex bedrest so idk but try some lubricant. Either water based or olive oil works.

[Marissa2009]

Yes it's normal I think. I'm 16 weeks prego and I have the same thing. Sometimes I can enjoy it but there are times it hurts so bad that I Want to cry.