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I really do not know how to tell my friends I'm pregnant. I'm 20 weeks goin on 21 and still have only told my one friend that doesn't even live near me. I don't really wanna post it on facebook because I'm 19 and everyone is drama around here): I just don't need stress or rude comments. plus one of my friends miscarried in October and I feel like she would be jealous or something.(she's like that) but I know people aregonna find out sooner or later because if I go out they will see my belly. right now you can't really tell. Any advice ? It's hard not having anyone to talk to about how I'm feeling except my boyfriend):
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Yeah I'm thinking if people see me out with my big belly then they will know. I don't hang out with anyone so it's not like my daughter will be around any of them anyhow. At least I have family that is supportive and happy for me that's all that matters :) thanks girls just needed a little pick me up been stressing about it for no reason lol
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I agree with the girls above. Talk to people who really matter to u. its nobodys business anyway, only yours.
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I deactivated my Facebook once I found out and I'm glad I did.  Just tell your close friends the rest of the people shouldn't matter.  I didn't tell all of my old hs friends I don't talk to them anymore cuz we're doing our own thing now
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Girl if their really your friends they will not judge you or criticize you! They needa b happy for you n b there for you cuz right now is the time you will need your fam n friends n bf the most so good luck to you and congrats!:)
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A pregnancy is nothing but a blessing. Its your & your babys time to shine & be happy. :)
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