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upset :/
So today I caught my bf with porn in the shower like really? Why hide it amd then still try and deny it! We have sex everyday more then once so idk what the problem is am I not good enough or what?
Iknow but it makes me mad because ive told him before lets watch porn because sometimes ilike to or il ask to do something else in bed and he gets like insulted or looks at me like its gross but icatch him doing it like what the heck
It sounds like he has hit his sexual peak. Which means sex is all thats on his mind and that most guys that are going thru that can masturbate up to 10 times a day on average. Which to me is a lot but thats just something I learned in sex ed.
Ugh, been seeing a lot of these posts today. I would feel the same way if I caught my man! I haven't yet but sometimes I feel like he been doing that behind my back when I am sleeping. The thought of it makes me sick to my stomach.
Porn can cause real issues. My husband watched porn before we got together 3 years ago and he was so dependent on it that he couldn't stay hard while we did things. It took 2 years for his joy stick to return to normal where we can actually have normal sex... i caught him looking up porn the other night and I flipped. Not only did it cause use relationship problems for those 2 years but now I feel fat and ugly since being pregnant...
It made me so mad! Like idk how to even explain it but he would be so mad if it was me doing it but ive told him lets watch porn do this or that and he gets mad idont get it! Iknowbits mot cheating but its still kind of gross ina way like why do we have sex if I wamt to jack off or whatever
Iknow its addicting to some men thats why om so mad idk what to do about it ojust feel like leaving honestly its bugging me idl how that cam even compare to having real sex
i just argued about that with my boyfriend today... it stresses me out, but it makes me so unattracted to him.
Men just don't understand that when we are pregnant we feel veey unattractive especially when we catch them trying to lie an say they ain't watching or looking up porn..I mean come on men think of your pregnant wife gf whatever she may be
That's the issue, that you are having so much sex. The more sex a man has, the more testosterone he produces, and the more he needs a sexual release.
It's an actual fact that men who get daily sex will masturbate more often then men who have sex once a week.
I honestly wouldn't worry about it. He's still having sex with you so don't freak out
It's an actual fact that men who get daily sex will masturbate more often then men who have sex once a week.
I honestly wouldn't worry about it. He's still having sex with you so don't freak out
Yea it is unattractive to me too its like ugh :/. Om going to try an not to worry so mucj about it thanks :) its jusy frustrating being pregnant and then this its like porn is fake theyre getting paid to be over the top haha. But yea iguess of hes not cheating its not that bad
My man does and it doesn't bother me lol Cuz he is still pleasing me all the time.i think he just likes to watch what I won't do...... CTFU! like oral will only go so far for me... and ino he loves that stuff so go head watch them lol Cuz I'm not doing all that extra stuff!
One of my exes was addicted to porn..like we would do it multiple times a day and he would still watch it. I learned to either try and get his attention away from it by doing something naughty or just simply asking him if there was anything I could try from today's set of porn....it spiced things up and he got to the point where he never watched it.
I caught my hubby watching it on the phone. I just teased him I was like," college sluts huh?" I was like keep in it classy I see. Just poke fun haha. Guys will be guys.
My husband doesn't watch porn, we are Christians and in the Bible it says if you lust for another you are already committing adultery in your heart. So it is cheating and in our pre martial counseling they discuss the repercussions of watching it, which is most of the problems being discussed,
An easy solution, my husband recorded videos of me and of us together to watch when he masturbates and has not caused one issue, why don't your ladys suggest this to you're men, ask them if instead they can record you and watch it instead.
An easy solution, my husband recorded videos of me and of us together to watch when he masturbates and has not caused one issue, why don't your ladys suggest this to you're men, ask them if instead they can record you and watch it instead.
Ido alwsys want to try new stuff and sometimes he doesnt want to and it gets me mad. But idk what to do I guess as long as he isnt doing it all day and night. Thays a good suggestion I will tell him about recording . I do all the oral stuff and like whatever he wsnt to try so idk what he wants ugh ican never win ha iguess it doesnt matter how much I do or dont do :/
Omg! This happened to me the other day! It made me feel so self conscious but we worked things out. Hopefully he apologized by now and made up with a little make up s** ;-)
Yes he did but I feel like is still going to watch it. Ijust dont want him to end up being so addicted to porn that he doesnt want to have sex with me iknow alot of women whos bfs n husbands spend allday on it and then dont want to have real sex . It worries me
I've been going thru this problem for awhile and its made me feel selfconsious. When we first started our sex life was on fire now its burned down a little bit so with him watching porn it makes me feel like hes coming off thinking about other girls. ..BUT I've come to realize I rather him watch porn than go out and cheat on me ... its a lose lose thing
Its better than him going out and cheating. I use to get mad but ive learned if its what hes into and wants to do chances are hes not gonna stop. Its just porn.
Iknow its just porn but ive seen so many men who get so into it they cant even have sex with their partner anymore they prefer masterbation and iknow those are extreme cases but it bugs me kind of
I am the same way n my man denies it. it bothers me cuz he lies about it. n the videos r there in the history n I'm down to do whatever he wants. n when I want to watch it with him he will get mad n turn it off. I feel like I'm not enough now that I found out I'm pregnant.
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