is it normal?

[likklehev]

Yesterday my boyfriend told me that ive seamt really distant from him and act like I dont want to spend time with him anymore. This isnt true im just always really tired and want to sleep or dont feel very well. I also have a lot on my mind like telling my parents and pregnant and the pressures of people telling me that i should have an abortion because having a baby at 18 will be ruining my life as om currently working in a secondary school whilst training to be a teacher. I wouldnt dream of getting rid of my child and it hurts me for people to think that I should because of this

[likklehev]

Thanks its not like I havent a clue what im doing im round kids all the time it's my job so I dont see how anybody can say things really it isnt like I cant carry on with my training or job whilst pregnant they arnt going to hurt anything how can someone say someone should abort their baby wheb they are trained to look aftwr other people's children theyre just being daft

[annat33]

I understand about the affection part just tell hI'm to be patient with you your emotions are going to be all high though your pregnancy sometimes you'll want him to be around 24/7 other times you'll want to kick him out lol that's just how it is with some women. But imsure you'll be extra emotional because of people telling you to abort don't listen to them this is your desision its hard but you can do it! I got preg  at 16 so I know how that is but I had a lot of support so just keep the people that are supportive of your desision and keep away from the people that aren't.

[likklehev]

I don't realise that im doing it im not affectionate often because I don't feel well most of the time

[KaylaC08]

I dont TRY to act like that towards my boyfriend but I have become pretty distant. I really am not in to sex and it bugs me when he is always affectionate towards me which I shouldn't be I just haven't hit my affectionate time yet.

[likklehev]

I talked to him about it straight away and hes very understanding I feel really bad for making him feel that way

[Ariel_21]

It's normal. I say just talk to him about what you thinking the more you think the more you take your mind off of the person you with so talk to him before the relationship goes bad. Because he feels that way. Maybe you don't realize it but he is so go out to dinner or something and talk to him I'm sure he will understand.