I don't know if I'm super mean to by boyfriend or....

[1st_pregnancy27]

Just being a woman. I have a problem with him catching a ride with a chick he use to have a thing for I don't care if your homeboy was the one who was in the car and told her to come scoop you...I mean am I wrong...I tell him it's over so much then we get right back together anhour later....he says iI'm insecure and try to control him...I say he's disrespectful and some situations need to be addressed...he cooks for me and clean which I'm grateful for but when it comes to females I see nothing but red and I let him know wassup....again am I being insecure controlling and mean or a woman with rules

[LadyBeeley]

Especially if his friend is in the car. Not like theyre driving off into the sunset to openly have a 3-some.

[LadyBeeley]

I trust my boyfriend I ask him to go to strip clubs and socialize with women to remind me he is a guy lol. But all joking aside if you dont trust him you dont have a relationship honestly and you probably shouldnt be together. You deserve someone who makes you feel soooo reassured you never have to doubt them and the fact there is no trust means very clearly you are not being appreciated in a way you feel you deserve.

[knufrio]

I would see no issue with my husband getting a ride to work with someone he used to like. He even goes to lunch with girls every now and then. The past is the past and he's with me now. My hubby still talks to someone he used to sleep with 10 years ago and they keep it G rated (granted they had a period of like 7 years that they didn't talk)... I think its just insecurity. Pregnancy can make you feel more insecure because of all the body changes, but just remember he is with you. Trying to control everything he does is just going to make things worse.

[super_nerdy_mommy]

You guys, to me anyway, sound really insecure in your relationships. If there's no trust, there's no point,  and flipping **** every time your guy is near a female (especially if other people are there) is definitely a sign of a lack of trust. It's genuinely unfair and pretty immature to take out your insecurity and anything a different guy has done to you in the past out on a man that has given you no reason to be that way. If he Has given you reason to freak out over being near other girls, then why on earth are you still with him? Telling someone flat out who they can and can't be around is decidedly controlling. If you're uncomfortable with your significant other being around someone I particular just sit down and have a normal adult conversation about it. If he cares, then he'll listen and take your concerns to heart and you can work out an amicable solution. From where I'm standing and in my experience, it really sounds like you're not showing him respect or showing him that you think he's capable of behaving on his own. Stable relationships have to be a two way street built on solid trust and good communication, and, I'm sorry, but that doesn't involve telling someone it's over repeatedly whenever you don't get your way. :/

[Mreeah]

Im the same way, like a lot of other women feel this way too and i think its an insecurity issue. Especially if youve been cheated on in the past or have had another woman try and take whats yours and suceed. I thin your partner should respect you! Some women just love to cause trouble.

[1st_pregnancy27]

Thanks ladies

[Staceyyyyy91314]

Yeah, doesn't sound too good him being in a car with a girl he used to have a thing for, IMO

[miracle_mommy2014]

no i dont think so. im the same way....i dont have none of that. if hes in a relationship he should have certain rules and boundries and as girlfriends sometimes we have to set those boundries for them....sometimes they are not very smart and screw up. i mean of course there should be trust and things shouldnt be super out of control. but honestly what girl lets their man do whatever the hell we wants when he wants....no girl. lol