vent...help

[lera1130]

Okay... So I'm 33w4d. I'm in the WORST mood. Literally just angry about everything! My husband pisses me off for everything. My 2yr old is really irritating me because she's being so whiny about everything. I feel like I'm just going to blow up on someone. I don't want to be angry at my husband but he seriously doesn't get that I'm pregnant and I'm tired, I'm anxious, my bones hurt, I'm big, emotional, he has a "its just pregnancy attitude". He thinks because so many women go thru it I should basically just deal with it. I'm sick and tired of that. I really just wanted to relax this last month I've got to go. But no! Ive had a huge pile of laundry, ask me if he's offered to help me fold and put away? No, instead he'll do more laundry and just dump it on top. I got to folding one basket and because my daughter thru her blanket over it he thought it was a pile and destroyed everything I had just folded. I get that he didn't see but geez it took so long... That's just one of the things. I seriously need help.

[lera1130]

I'll try asking him to get that app once he decides to text me back or call me. But I already know the response... He'll say yes. Not do it. Then I'll find out. He'll say he didn't have space on his phone and how he can't delete any other app he has. It's seriously dissapointing.

[Carried_away]

Ugh, I totally feel ya. My husband has been useless thru out my pregnancy. I finally suggested he download a pregnancy app just for dads on his phone. It gives him updates on what my body is going thru & how awful it can make u feel. Things have improved so much. He helps so much more & I don't even have to ask!

[Carried_away]

Ugh, I totally feel ya. My husband has been useless thru out my pregnancy. I finally suggested he download a pregnancy app just for dads on his phone. It gives him updates on what my body is going thru & how awful it can make u feel. Things have improved so much. He helps so much more & I don't even have to ask!

[lera1130]

That's what bothers me. I'm not the person to ask for help but sometime bending down frequently to pick up a living room full of small toys really hurts and leaves me extremely tired. But no he'll just watch me clean everything up. And then he won't say anything but he'll give me a look when he sees me sitting or laying town. Or if I say something aches or hurts he's just like "poor you" while he's watching tv or looking up funny things online. I'm like you're kidding me! It ***** cause I'm a stay at home mom and i feel guilty complaining about anything...

[lera1130]

I don't know.... I just told my husband about it and he hasn't even replied to my text. It just makes me feel worst. No help around here. If he's not going to care neither will I. Let him ask me for something...ha!

[apefro]

dang im 18weeks preg and have a 3yr old. Well when I found out I was pregnant my baby daddy and fience of 4 yrs went off and had sex with another girl so I dumped him and moved out.him and her were together for about a month theb he begs me to come back that he messed up.now everythings worse bc when I goto work everyday I think shes coming over even tho he isnt talkn to her.i question his every move and think everything tht comes out of his mouth is a lie.plus the girl lives right diwn the road.ugh I cry all the time I have panic attacks an sometimes I cant eat.i  have to do all the houae work an im tge one with the hob not him.im so sick of living this hard life.its bs

[TxMamma]

I hear u sister. My 3 yr old asks if im gonna be mad today. Talk about heart breaking. My husband is just stupid. I really need to clean my toilets but that angle of bending hurts my back big time. I mentioned it to my hubby in passing,  he didn't take the hint.  My baby shower is at my house this wknd. I gotta clean even tho my mom said she'd do it since it kinda sux that its at my own home. I could go on and on...

[lera1130]

I don't know.... I just told my husband about it and he hasn't even replied to my text. It just makes me feel worst. No help around here. If he's not going to care neither will I. Let him ask me for something...ha!

[mommyofaria]

Don't feel bad. I'm 23 weeks and I feel the exact way that you Do...sometimes him so pissed to the point that I want to cry!!!!! It's so unfair because no one acts like they do not understand what we're going through!! I hate that I feel this way but it seriously hard to control your emotions when your body is basically not your own anymore....I too get upset and annoyed with my two year old god son because he constantly cries and cries for nothing...I just pay him no attention and my baby daddy act like he really doesn't care sometimes which is where I think my anger stems from.....besides my uncontrollable emotions......but don't worry we will get through this!! :)