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[mimimed]

Hello, I am new member. I need some question to clear out myself. I want to be pregnant soon. My menstral cycle is irregular. My last period was march 4. I have counted from my previous cycle, so it was 34 days cycle. I suppose to be ovulating after 17 days but I ovulate on this April 10. My husband and me did sex on that day and also nextday. we did not sex on mon and tuesday.  I have checked with pregnenct test kit, but it was negetive. Do I have any chance to get pregnent in this cycle. Should we do sex on coming days. Does it help? Please give me advise. Thanks.

[Ra1983]

Yeah, because if you have sex everyday, sperm count goes down, and if you abstain sperm count goes down. So what do you do? Have sex every other day. Well I am also very irregular with my periods and dont really know how long my cycles are, but since I was TTC I started tracking my temps. I never tried those ovulation kits but I am sure it would help. Checking my temps is what worked for me. Well your temps. are usually low during the beginning of your cycle, but spikes up to higher temps after you ovulate until your AF arrives. I just got my BFP yesterday on CD43 at 11dpo. according to my temps. Have you been tracking your temps? If you any questions let me know. I've learned a lot from this site=D

[rbohl01]

When my husband and I try we use an ovulation tester. Than once it comes up positive we try that day and for the 3 days after that. I got pregnant right away. We are trying again right now since we lostour baby. I know its frustrating when you have irregular cycles. I have short cycles (every 25 days). Its a pain in the butt most of the time except when you are trying to conceive. Good luck with the baby making!!

[MissmyAngel]

Have sex every other day, or every day around the time you ovulate. You can also buy cheap ovulation tests at earlypregnancytests.com