2nd baby?

[smashNsawyer]

I'm not pregnant right now, I had my son Dec. 6th, I know I want another baby and I don't want them to be far apart in age, my question is what do you think is a good age difference and when is it safe for my body and baby to get pregnant again? Thanks in advance:)

[snagglepuss1]

There really is no wrong or right time, just what's right for you! Good luck

[smashNsawyer]

Congratulations! :) I don't know...I guess I'm kind of just leaving it up to God, we didn't plan on our son he was just a happy accident and it turns out it was the perfect time so maybe I'll just go with the flow unless the flow lasts long than two years:) lol I would test again just to be sure.

[snagglepuss1]

I had my daughter, when she was 18 months I had my first son, when he was 17 months I had my second son. I had 3 kids under 3 for a short while and with no family to help and hubby worked full time, i was positively zombified for the first 6 months of my 2nd sons life....but it did get easier and they re 7, 5 and 4 now and get on very well together. Am expecting baby number 4, my last, any day now and after having a 4 year gap and my other 3 are toilet trained day and night and independent, am looking forward to having a new baby again.

[baileybob]

i just feel like i normally do when i first start my period i never have any pain before just once its actually here but am still not bleeding i thought the pill would kick start it again not sure what to think i may give it the weekend then try testing we didnt use anything the last time i would like 18month ish between mine thats what is between me any my sister and we get aong great

[smashNsawyer]

No I havent gotten my period back, I heard some women don't while they're breastfeeding. I bled one time and thought i could be pregnant but tested and was negative...we use condoms right now but the first one broke. I'm just nervous I don't want to rush it because in the first years there's a lot I feel like I could I miss of my son being pregnant or having a newborn  

[baileybob]

I am in the same boat as u had my little boy the 14th dec and can not wait 4 the next but i have split with my partner so it wont happen any time soon have your periods returned to normaly yet? I had unprotected sex on the 16th  jan an had a bleed like the one i had after conceiving my boy then it stoped and my doc put me bk on the pill but the last few weeks i have been really tired emotional moody cramping loads which is really rare for me and my boobs hurt i finished my pack of pills on wed and still havent started to bleed cuz the pill do this to me i now ur body does change after giving birth but i dnt want to live my life on pain killers for all the bad heads am getting?

[smashNsawyer]

Good point! Thanks ladies! I just had such an awesome delivery I wanna do it over and over! Lol

[mommybear0710]

I'm expecting baby #3 and mine are all 2 years apart that way they are potty trained, and can do a lot for themselves and I'm not trying to carry two babies at the same time.

[Jld83]

I have four kids now and pregnant with number 5. Mine are all two years apart. Its seems to work good that way. The youngest is potty trained before baby gets here. My doctor said it takes a year for your body to recover.