Aa
help please!!
So basically I'm not sure if I want to be with my partner anymore, I don't know if it's just hormones or stress but could do with some advice. So anyway I have a 1 and a half year old and I'm currently pregnant with baby number 2, my partner isn't my daughter's dad but has been there since I was pregnant with her. He left me a month before my due date because he wasn't sure if he could be a father role and he wasn't ready, our relationships always been rocky because of his lack of responsibility and now that I'm pregnant with his child I thought that would change but it hasn't. I think he's realised that he's going to be a dad and I don't think he feels ready for this, he still wants to go out partying every weekend, he seems to be more happy at the thought of going out and getting drunk than going out once in a while with me as a couple, he has started to get quite mean to me as well if I ask more than one question I get told that I'm annoying him and I'm to shut up, when I'm upset he doesn't comfort me he just says what you crying for now etc, it's really getting me down and its causing me stress. He never used to be like this though, he was thoughtful, kind and sweet, he used to surprise me with flowers or a home cooked meal and just be nice and considerate towards me so I'm not sure what's brought this change on? I love him with all my heart and I don't want to end up a single mum of 2 babies, I know he loves me too but he's just being so immature and irresponsible lately that I've been rethinking our relationship. I've tried talking to him and it doesn't work so I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I want the old him back :(
sounds just like my marriage, except this is my 1st pregnancy. Guys need to man up. I wish my guy will.
Sounds to me he realizes its time to actually grow up and almost like he scared. .. maybe u should give him a reality check. That its time to grow up or ur gone. Most men dont believe woman when they threaten to leave but u need no stress for ur lil one. I know stress has been my biggest issue lately myself and it ***** but I have been contemplating leaving my guy also bc of it. I wish u luck
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