i need support ladies! :(

[zaira92]

Ok so im 20 only child my mom jus found out i am pregnant im going thru the hard depression rightnow me nd her always wer so close. Nd she almost got to slappin me in thw face she told me i was goin to get kiked out nd thw thing is me nd the bby dad noy really together anymore for the fact that he doesnt want the baby..im pouring tears rightnow :'(

[tay_lily_n_bump]

i know how you feel. i recently told my parents im having another baby and theyve walked away from me. said ive done nothing but diasapoint my whole life and a lot of other hurtful things. and im 23 and live with my partner. parents can be supprising at times. she may come around and it may strengthen your relationship in the end but i wouldnt make any decisions right away while your upset. its still your baby and you can make it work for you even without their help.

[ashkevin13]

Aww.. Hun. Its going to be alright. Did this just happen tonight, or has she know for days and is still upset. She might have a better attitude after a good night sleep, or a couple days to cool off. But if the case comes, is there anyone you can stay with for a while, Do you have a job? Something you can raise money and find an apartment. There are so mnay programs and government assistance for those that need it, You can find help everywhere, When it comes to living arrangements, I think that is the only thing I am clueless on, thats why I asked if you could stay with someone for a while if need be.

[Msuxalux07]

Clearly your mother is being self absorbed right now because she isn't thinking of how you feel and what you want; the same goes for your boyfriend. Tell each of them how you feel and let them know that this situation is about you and not their choice; whether you want to keep your baby or babies. I say that because I've went through the same situation for the most part but in the beginning I was going to have an abortion because I thought my companion wasn't the one. Eventually we worked it out with him and I kept my baby twins and now I cannot wait for them to arrive and what everyone else thinks does not bother me because I cannot wait for them to arrive and my relationship is about to go to the next level. Even though we went through our relationship very quickly. We've only dated two months and then we found out were pregnant. If he loves you enough, he will change his mind within time. Patience is key, I know it will be hard in the beginning, and I wish you luck. Have a good night

[zaira92]

Bump :)