whos the father, please help

[jenna1156]

last period 23 aug, had sex from 29 thru 5 sept. on the 8 sept had another mans penis near my vagina for 20 secs, he did not *** or enter me, could he still of gotten me pregant? i also took a digital pregnancy test  on 21st sept with conception calculator, it said 2-3 weeks. my periods are regular and every 27 days. i also had implantation bleed on the 15 sept. thanks

[jenna1156]

thank you - i know this question seemed obvious but your mind plays tricks and i needed reassurance. so thank you so much.
if anyone else can add anything, particular to implantation bleed, thanks

[KTowne]

Oh and implantation bleeding usually happens 6-12 days past unprotected sex.

[jenna1156]

thank you - i know this question seemed obvious but your mind plays tricks and i needed reassurance. so thank you so much.
if anyone else can add anything, particular to implantation bleed, thanks

[KTowne]

First Day of Last Menstrual Period:  August 23, 2012

Probable Date of Ovulation:  September 6, 2012

Possible Dates of Conception:  September 2 to September 10, 2012

Due Date:  May 30, 2013 (40 weeks)

If you had sex, unprotected the 5th, and ovulated the 6th (which is very, very likely, and HIGHLY unlikely it was the 2nd guy) conception was on or around the 6th, sperm can live up to a few days (24-48 hours is more likely, however it CAN live longer) so the sperm from the 5th was likely waiting for the egg the 6th.

[jenna1156]

thanks, when do you think conception was ? and is implantation bleed possible ( if it was the 2nd guys ) after 1 week?

[KTowne]

It's very, very likely the 1st guys.

[jenna1156]

thank you, age 30

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

That is HIGHLY unlikely in the situation you described.  I would like to move this to the appropriate forum, since this is the "am I pregnant?" forum.  We have a forum for women age 18-34, and one for women age 35 and over.  Which one fits you best? There may be people who can provide a better answer.

[jenna1156]

sorry, yes iam pregnant, the 2nd man did not enter me, but i keep reading about precum on the outside can swim up. im so paranoid he could of gotten me pregnant,

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Your question is a bit unclear - was your pregnancy test positive? ARE you pregnant?

Unless the 2nd man entered you & ejaculated, it is very, VERY unlikely that he is the father.