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I'm 26 weeks pregnant, still living in this shelter. Times just keep getting harder and harder. I went out to see my husband the other day and he made every excuse not to see me, so I had to leave without seeing him at all. All night last night I couldn't get a hold of him at all. He finally called me at 11:30 this morning telling me how he was out drinking til 4 am with his ex girlfriend who he has cheated on me with in the past. He's trying to say he didn't do anything wrong because nothing happened between them last night they were just drinking and hanging out and her sister was there too anyway. I reached my breaking point and said **** it and changed my number. By now I would expect him to get a hold of me any other way--Facebook, email, whatever--but he hasn't... I do love him and miss him and I really don't wanna do this alone with the baby but should I just stay strong anyway and keep the lost contact with him?
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U may think u cant do it on ur own but u can. The dad of my bby thas on the way he left few days after I found out. Itl b a struggle but im sure u wil b the best mum ever. U dont need his stress and beter on your own. Look after yourself and the little one thats on the way because he or she wil give u all the love u need. Chin up
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2141290 tn?1349033141
its really your choice in the long run.. but in my opinion if hes cheated in the past then hell most likely do it again. granted some men make mistakes and do it and learn from them but if hes hanging out with her that shows he didnt learn from anything and he has no problem in hurting you..and you dont need someone like that. you dont want someone that has no regards to your feelings. if there was really nothing going on why didnt he answer the phone? thats what I would be asking.

just remember that there will always be someone out there that will love you and your child. as hard as the road your traveling is it will all be worth it in the long run.  if its meant to be then it will be no matter what.. but if hes not trying to contact you in anyway then maybe its time to move forward for you and your baby
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2170635 tn?1357911686
I think you deserve way beter then him stay strong you make it through he dosent deserve u at all and wat he did is and did in the past isnoy fair to you good luck :)
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