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Over weight n prego

I am an over weight pregnant 26yr old....okay I guess im obese lol. Anyhow, I would really like to see that im not the only one because while other 4month pregnant girls in my area lool cute with their little baby bumps I just look odd looking at maternity clothes when they think im mistaking them for plus size clothes! lol. Well if anyone else can relate I would love to hear from you. Add me as a friend, we could share stories and our pregnancy.
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If your using the mobile app.
Click on the user name you want to add 
Then go to send a message ....
Check on add as a friend
Send the message then just Waite for that person to accept your invitation...

Is much easier if your on your computer..
You click on the user name you want to add 
Then click on add as friend or send an invite....
And Waite for the person to accept your invite....
=) xx
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1925157 tn?1328929017
Yes please do not worry what people think. Honestly people can be pretty rude to pregnant. Woman I'm 30weeks and 2 days and a cashier told me the other day oh any day now huh. I was like uhm.. actually iI still have about ten weeks to go. And she just looked at me. I wasn't skinny skinny before but I also wasn't over weigh. Just more muscle. And sometimes I want to hide my belly its so big. And only will get bigger. But just remember you are one of the most beautiful people out there because you are growing another life inside of you!
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I completely understand how you feel. I've been overweight my whole life. This is my second pregnancy and I'm 25 weeks. With the first I just looked fat buntil my last 2 months. With this one I am 25 weeks and still don't look pregnant most of the time (it depends on what I wear). What I dislike most about being pregnant and being overweight is that the further along I get, the harder it is for me to move around. My body just aches and I think if I was in better shape it wouldn't be as bad. On the plus side I have not gained any weight with either pregnancy. I also lost almost 25 lbs right after my first son was born (water weight, and baby weight I'm sure). Just enjoy your pregnancy and don't worry about anyone else.  
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2008858 tn?1343844041
I'm +++ size pregnancy and get annoyed cus I want for people to know I'm pregnant but obviously dont and I'm 30+2 I've not been able to find cute maternity clothes so have joggers and comfy tops. Oh well.
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I so glad I'm not the only one I felt weired shopping for maternity clothes but I'm just super excited now and I'm 20w and 6d congratulations to you and good luck and I don't know how to add friends.
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I dont know how to add friends :(  you all can email me ***@****
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Aw im glad to see that im not alone! Thank you girlies for all the support. I haven't gained weight in fact Ive lost 7lbs my husband was starting to worry especially since this is our very first pregnancy. Thank you again, God bless you all and congrats on your new addition!
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1911870 tn?1345419009
I don't think wieght has anything to do with how you show or don't show. I'm 5'2" and about 125 pounds before pregnancy. I'm a little chubby. As of just a little over 20 weeks i'm still not showing much. People around me can tell a small difference but strangers have no idea. So don't let being over wieght make you feel bad about not showing. I know I see other girls just as far as me with cute little baby bumps and i've got nothing. It's quite furstrating. It'll come.
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2020005 tn?1628125976
I wouldn't worry about what anyone thinks! Being overweight doesn't mean you're not beautiful! 4 months is early on, wait til 9 months! You'll be showing for sure, there's no way around it! Enjoy your pregnancy, buy maternity clothes, show them off, no one else gets to enjoy it but you, and you'll regret it for sure if you don't! Congratulations mama!
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2072659 tn?1340597373
I know how u feel!! Im 19 weeks and my stomach is just now rounding out! I think as u get farther along you will look pregnant
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1995033 tn?1334163103
Girl im right there with ya
Idk how to add ppl so add me :)
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I can completely relate. I'm 21 and almost 22 weeks and not showing at all. People look at me surprised when I tell  them how far along I am. It's nice being used to being bigger I don't seem to have any back problems or sleeping issues because I already used to compensating for it lol. I also was so worried I'd gain tons while pregnant but so far only lost and I eat tons better.
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Awwwee i totally understand where your coming from im currently 17w3d and i still look phat not pregnant i been wondering how long is it going to take before i get my baby belly until then I've been wearing my sweat pants n pjs lol CONGRATULATIONS N BEST OF LUCK :-)
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