It would be better if you ask your boy friend to read the article in Wikipedia.
Visit Wikipedia to assess female ejaculation. All details are given clearly. I am pasting important part of the article.
The terminology (such as female prostate and female ejaculation) invoke images of the female as merely an imitation of the male, mapping the female body onto the male, as if, like the Galenic view, it was incomplete.[78] Furthermore, overemphasis of ejaculation may induce performance anxiety.[11] For the reason that 'sameness' has been construed as a male perspective, some feminists reject the term ejaculation. Others argue it should be retained as a distinctive feminine characteristic distinguishable from the male, and imbued with different properties and purpose. A third concern is that of the increasing 'medicalisation' of women's sexuality, as expressed by Leonore Tiefer which finds its most extreme manifestation in the concept of female sexual dysfunction.[79] Tiefer has expressed concern that overemphasising ejaculation will drive women who might feel inadequate to seek medical attention,[11] as has the Boston Women's Health Collective.[80] Other criticism comes from Barbara Ehrenreich[81] and colleagues who see this new sexuality as one that privileges the male in control, penile retention and body position, but this is denied by others.[12]
Contemporary women's health literature summarises what is considered factual as being that the amount of fluid varies greatly and may be unnoticeable, occurs with or without vaginal stimulation, and may accompany orgasm or merely intense sexual pleasure, and orgasm may occur without ejaculation. Whether it can be learned or not, women report that they can induce it by enhancing their sexual response.[11] Regardless, countless workshops now exist to teach women that learning how to ejaculate is an important form of feminine sexual expression. Sundahl describes it as a birthright and essential part of female creativity.[64]
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Would traumatize him lol lot of guys usually love that!
For some women this is their normal way of being. I hope your SO can learn to be more sensitive when talking about your body.