In March, I had oral sex with another male. This male rubbed his penis on mine, and we masturbated. I'm 37.
1. The next day I had a sting in the head of my penis which lasted a few seconds. Next day pain, and the following day, discharge. Was given a gram of arythromycin. Discharge stopped, pain continued. Frequently feeling like I need to pee. Doc suggested it was viral and gave me 1 week of Valtrex + doxycycline. Things settled, but 2 days after meds stopped pain continued.
2. Pain got worse, felt numb in my genitals, severe burning, and even felt it in my feet. Went to GUM clinic, and cleared of all STIs. Went back a few days later as penis was hurting severely - felt like the pain went all the way along my urthethra, and into my body - given gram of arythromycin. Pain continues.
3. Pain gets severe, and went to A&E twice. Prostate examined, and found not to be tender, but a little enlarged. No treatment given. Went back because pain is in abdomen, and skin above pubic area senstive to touch, and hurting. Treated for bladder infection, but no change in pain. See GP, given doxy again, things seem to settle and then pain returns and is terrible - makes me cry! Burning, pins and needles, an ache, all in my penis. Changed to trimethoprim (quinolones don't agree with me), and no change. Pain continues.
4. Still in pain, unsure if prostatitis, as not tender. Examined by urologist who is stumped and says he doesn't know what is wrong with me. Pain is there today, and at times it feels like there is something stuck in my urethra.
5. Throughout all this, urine cultured three times, and clear.
6. At 8-9 weeks, IgG Herpes antibody test for HSV1 and HSV2 - negative. Never had a blister, but there seemed to be some red spots, slight purple areas on my glans, and sometimes the skin looks a little dry and wrinkled. When the burning is at its worse, the head of my penis seems to go red.
Any ideas? This is complex I know.