I am just getting into a new relationship. the guy has genital herpes and takes a medication. he has not visible symptoms. i am not sure when he last had an outbreak. we have not had intercourse or any other oral or genital contact yet. i am wondering what the chances are of me contracting herpes from him if he uses a condom, and if he doesn't use a condom, and when either of us perform oral sex on each other, again, without him wearing a condom if he is receiving oral sex.