herpes, gonorrhea., chlyamidia????discharge showed up 5 days after i was given oral sex

[floridajoe3]

hello i got unprotected oral sex from a girl 7 days ago.  we didn't have intercourse or anything, she just gave me oral sex.  Don't mean to sound explicit but she sucked my penis very strong, hard for 10 to 15 minutes.  Even after i ejaculated she kept sucking for another 2 or 3 minutes.   At times i had to tell her to ease up because she was sucking so hard it hurted and i think her teeth caught me a couple times.  After i came i had to tell her to stop sucking about 3 or 4 times.  anyways the people i know who caught gonorrhea all say they noticed the same day of sex and it was extremely painful not to mention it came from intercourse.  So i wasn't that scared since she only gave me oral.  3 days later i knew i was in good.  well 4 days later i noticed very sticky underwear and a bump n my pubic hair and a tingle when i urinated.  I originally thought a spider bit me me, because the bump is big and bleeds like a spider bite.  i originally thought maybe the spider bit me at the tip of my penis also----that's probably the reason for the itch and tingle when i ****.  for the past 2 days i've changed underwear 4 times due to blood and being stickys.  yesterday (the 6 day since oral sex) i looked at my penis and noticed a whitish or yellowish looking discharge coming from it and i freaked out.  When i urinate it is burning but it's a tingle and slite itchy feel, there's blood on my underwear but i think all that's coming from the bump that looks like a spider bump and that bumps size has decreased.  Do health departments allow std test without taking an hiv test? i took 1 a year ago and it was very depressing, the results were negative and i haven't had unprotected sex in over 7 years.


also i have a big bump that's been n my pubic hair for over 2 years a big mosiquito like bump i think it's muccolous i don't know how to spell it.  

thanks

[sparkeler]

If you are experiencing discharge, see a doctor.  If it happens to be gonnorhea, you won't really know whether you got it form the oral sex or the 1 pump.  Good luck to you.  Stay safe.

[barn babe]

"The chik(sic) is suspect."

Can we refrain from using judgmental language? You are no less "suspect" since you are out there having sex with different partners as well. I have mentioned this before, and I will probably get flamed for saying it, but this type of language and judgmental terminology is misogynistic. I know this is not the forum for a discussion of feminism and cultural sexism, but I am absolutely amazed at the way men are perfectly willing to have sex with a woman and in their next breath judge her negatively for having sex with other partners. I'm tired of the double standard.

The bump you have had for 2 years is probably harmless. Think about it - you've had it for two years! If you are concerned, see your family doctor.

[floridajoe3]

thank you for your response, i plan on going in the morning.  1 other thing i thought about, the girl i spoke about gave me oral about 4 or 5 days before the discharge started or that i noticed a bunch of **** on my underwear.  I've heard that catching a std such as gonorrhea is small through oral sex.  well i was thinking and about a month ago or really about 28 days ago, me and a chik were having sex, i used 1 condom, after i came i chilled. then she started grinding me, i didnt hav anymore condoms. so we were just laying on each other then she slipped my penis in for 1 stroke and I IMMEDIATELY PULLED OUT.  that's no exagerration my penis was n for less than 10 seconds. The chik is suspect, meaning she's had a few partners she just caught me very horny-i've none her for a yr and never attempted to have sex with her, today I ask and beg God for forgiveness.   But, i really don't know if this is gonorrhea, was it from the oral sex last week or from the 10 seconds of unprotected sex 28 days ago?  Also any idea what the big bump in my pubic hair is?  it's going on 2 years and it hasn't went anywhere.  

[sparkeler]

Discharge is suggestive of gonnorhea.  You can get tested for std's without being tested for hiv.  The *bump* in your pubic region isn't herpes.  Herpes doesn't remain unchanged for 2 years.  Bottom line:  You really should go to a health care provider to get this all straightened out.