In May 15 I had a blow job with condom on at singapore massage house where my hands accidentally touched the vagina of massuess for few seconds.At no stage there was a vaginal sex.Immediately after coming from singapore i fell sick from fever/Cold/Sorethroat and recovered in 2 days
Later in aug 15 I had a handjob with out condom in massage house in Bali and also an erotic massage where in the girl was clothed in bikini but i was nude , she rubbed her body with mine but I was careful to avoid any contact with our genitals, ""in one stance she put her figures in her vagina for a short while"" I may have accidentally touched her vagina for minute and touched my penis or she may have also touched my penis in the process..at the end she gave me handjob with condom. At no stage there was a vaginal sex
Later on in Nov 15 in India i happen to meet a lady whom i knew and dated with her, for say 3 minutes she gave me blowjob unprotected and i happen to rub her clit with my fingures covered with condom....what is my chances of contacting STD/HIV
after this incident i suddenly happen to realise that I am following a risky behaviour and may end up in contacting STDs and since that day for 3 months i was in depression and I have a doubt lingering in my mind that I may have contacted STI/HIV during these encounters.Also i had few white patches in my inner cheek (after using mouthwash excessively) and also recurrence of fungal infection in my toe nails and a bout of fever in January with severe body ache and recovered in 4 days and this has destroyed my happiness. Several times i tried getting tested but cudnt muster a courage for that....several of my friends including few docs have advised me to stay cool as they say I do not stand a practical possibility of contacting STI/HIV during any of my above said activities....kindly guide me..do i stand a chance ...shud i really go for STI/HIV testing