kissing is not a risk for std's.
washing up after a sex act just makes you less sticky and smell better. it doesn't reduce your risk of std's at all. infection occurs during the sex act itself, the germs don't sit on the skin and work their way down into the body.
this is low risk in general and we don't recommend testing unless you develop any symptoms.
the best way to protect yourself is to only give and receive protected oral sex. it's a bit naive to trust that a stranger is telling you the truth about their std status so protect yourself :)
grace
thanks grace! i will keep a look out on my stuff within the next couple of weeks. lol. is there a timeline for symptoms to show for orally transmitted stds?
usually you'll develop symptoms within the next week or two if you were infected.