Hi, if she rubbed/grinded her vagina all over your body the risk would be for herpes and syphilis . Since you have a girl test at the correct window period for her protection.
Herpes 3 months
Syphilis 6 weeks
Thanks for the reply. I was trying to avoid looking into this too much since it is a kind of paranoia (even though the risk is real). So that's why I am coming back to you late. I have broken up with my gf so that's not an issue right now. The thing is: 17 days after the massage I spent a week highly fatigued and, flue-y (sore throat, coughing, general unwellness) and my gf went through something similar shortly after (we had had relations after the massage). For the past month since then I have been feeling run down, sore throat, sneezing. I know this is all non-specific but I want to know:
* Was there any risk of Hep C? I'm worried about my stools appearing too pale (sorry).
* Is there any reason to think these symptoms, or unwellness, could be related to an STD?
* Can herpes or syphilis cause this kind of unwellness without any sores?
* I don't think clinics usually offer herpes tests (but syphilis yes), is it really necessary?
* I know that it is quite likely that the problems are guilt, anxiety & some other fluke infection/condition that has nothing to do with this. I can't separate the small real risk from the paranoia very well!