Protected sex with a call girl

[BD30]

Hey all,

I was just wondering what my risk of having cobtracted STD's is after having done the following with a call girl not so long ago:

1. Oral sex with condom on
2. Various sex positions all with different condom on
3. Handjob near the end without a condom

I'm posting this because I'm very uninformed about STD's and how exactly different kinds are transmitted, basically how you get them and my level of risk.

Second, while all sexual activities were with a condom on (except for handjob), I was using a looser fit condom due to my inexperience at shopping for them. The multiple condoms used throughout the activities would slip up my penis but never completely off, there was never any penetration without condom.

[BD30]

Thank you so much!!

[Tony19821]

It is too soon to test for herpes but there's really no need to test for this anyway. Please go to the birthday party and don't give it a seconds thought.  

[BD30]

In your opinion, should I still go and get tested?? I have an appointment for today but am aware that different STD's have different "window periods". If too soon to test, I can re-schedule. This took place on Saturday 01/12 so yeah..

My only worry is that it's my younger cousins bday on Saturday and I wouldn't want to pass anything on, you know? I think the only std that could be transmitted would be herpes, am I right?? Or is that also only through genital contact?

I just want to be able to socialize worry free.

[Tony19821]

We're not here to judge anyone we all make mistakes my friend. The additional info doesn't change my opinion at all and the fact you didn't ejaculate doesn't make any difference to you it would only make a difference to the female if you had an STD.

[BD30]

Thanks for your answer Tony19821. To make a point in my post clear, the condom was loose enough that it would slide up a little, but not so loose that it fit like sweatpants. I'm not at all trying to sound immature by using that example, it's just the only clear way I can explain it. With my penis being erect, the condom was still able to remain at the base of the penis (a bit redundant I know) throughout damn near all activities.

Other things I forgot to mention:
- Condoms were all still intact after sex
- I did not ejaculate
- The only substance present inside the condom was the lubricant it comes prepped with.

Oh and thanks for not giving me a lecture on what the hell I was thinking going through with this. The guilt is enough, it sucks I had to learn this the hard way..

[Tony19821]

No real risk for anything from this exposure. Slight risk of HPV, herpes and syphilis but these are rare and without real symptoms ie painful blisters or open sores developing I wouldn't worry at all. STDs need proper sexual contact to pass ie unprotected vaginal, anal or oral sex.