Today's date as I write this is August 21st.
On July 4th I had sex with another male. Pretty short lived with little contact (no oral, peck on the lips but he penetrated me for a brief moment before I pulled away. He came very shortly thereafter. He said he did not *** in me. He said he is DDF. I don't know him so have no way of checking further with him.
I was checked for HIV on Monday, August 17. Negative.
Still, I have a 3/8 inch round spot on my left forearm that appeared on about August 8th. I was red and is fading now. Has a thin while crust on it. I've never seen anything like it. It does Not itch. ( I think I should mention I had been in the woods in Montana up until August 3rd and then spent a couple nights in a motel that had clean sheets but not much else.)
On Wednesday morning, August 19th, I had a bit of blood in my urine. I had a urine analysis that day and it was negative for any infection. It does not hurt nor burn to pee. I have had no blood in my urine since. I did materbate on Wednesday morning and hadn't for several days before that if that adds any useful information. I will note that sometime a while back, maybe 4 or 5 months ago I had been masterbating for a long period of time, maybe for 90 minutes or so and there was blood when I came. I let it go to having played with myself too long.
I do have a high PSA level. Was 7 a few months ago. On Wednesday I had it tested: 4.8. I am scheduled to see a urologist on Monday.
I am married and of course worried or I would't be writing this. My wife and I have not been having sex for some time (well before July 4th and I haven't been with anyone before that for years). Even so, I'd like to and want to be careful to do no harm. But also, I would like, if possible, to correct whatever I may have, if possible, discreetly.
If anyone has any useful ideas, I'd like to hear them.