Protected/unprotected oral

[Stayingsafe2018]

Hello all thanks for such great service, I am 28 Male, married but had a rough patch in the relationship and did the dumbest thing of finding some girl on a dating site, met with her 2 times both strictly oral she performed on me, first time a year ago no protection, second time 5 months ago used protection but ejaculated in her mouth without protection. I am having such a hard time now living with myself about what I’ve done, and so much regret and pain inside me feeling bad for my wife and just thinking about how lucky I was to have her but now I might hurt her if I caught something. So I freaked out about 4 months after the last encounter and went and had a HIV test done, negative thank god. But then google ruined me lol thinking about what other STIs STDs I could’ve got. Have no symptoms of anything no puss no sores. But I did schedule an appointment to my primary to have the full STD test including another HIV done. My questions are what are my chances that I might’ve got something a year ago and had no symptoms? And if I did get HIV would it be positive a year after? Or after the second encounter when I had protection and took it off what are the chances that I got something from that? And if I did have any STDs from those encounters is 6 months enough for them all to be conclusive? I need some help and it takes so much off just reading about like the percentages. But I keep telling myself I caught something. Idk if it’s anxiety or regret. But I’ll go ahead and say this to all that might read my story, whatever your going through at home, don’t ever cheat, worst mistake I ever made and now it’s something I’m going to have to live my whole life with. Even if I didn’t catch anything I caught the fact that my life is not going to be with just the love of my life.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi having an affair oral sex a year ago and no symptoms like a white puss penis discharge and burning while urinating or penis sores all appearing about a week later would appear you did not contract anything.

[Stayingsafe2018]

Awesome, thanks for the answer, I’m getting the tests done in 2 weeks just to make sure I’m clear, I know they say some std don’t have any symptoms at all, but my wife did have a little bloody discharge but she has issues with her periods and it freaked me out so bad. But she says it’s normal for her to get those since before we were even married. So it kind of calmed me down but I’m still a nervous wreck. So you believe my tests will be conclusive at 6 months and should be negative? I wanna make it right so bad after I get my results whether negative or positive, I think god taught me a lesson the hard way on this stuff.