Hi everyone! Been diving into many websites, got here to Medhelp, which seems to gather the most realistic data so far... Read several topics answered by Dr HHH, back in 2016, which honestly gave me some sort of relief. Anyway, I can't avoid asking...
I'm a male. Been to a full naked body massage, so far zero risk. During the session, things got hot and I performed cunnilingus on the therapist. Won't lie, it was great, but dumb. I had no sores, rashes, whatsoever in my mouth, tongue, throat and I am pretty sure I saw none of these at the ladies vagina/outer lips, as well as I could not smell anything weird.
Sexual activity was limited to naked body rubbing (no penis rubbing vagina, no vaginal, no anal, no fellatio), cunnilingus and a handjob.
Previous topics answered not only by Dr. HHH, but many community members seem to agree on this being a low risk STD activity. I'm struggling to be convinced on that, despite not being sure on what is low (0%, 5%, 30%) but when I "get out of here" and reach google, damn, it's all about how practically any sh*t can be contracted orally.
I wonder if any of the community members, general folks here, physicians, have some more recent data or some have been diagnosed of heard/seen anyone with STD's from cunnilingus. Sometimes it feels like I'm doomed and destined to get infected, others feel like I'm being paranoid and idiot.
I get that each STD has a window/timeframe, should I test for them? Usually at what, 2, 3, 4 weeks after the exposure? Should I just wait, do no test and watch for symptoms?
Sorry for being so dramatic...