HIV risk assessment please help!

[Jackie428]

I am a 23 year old healthy white female.Well my boyfriend and I have dated for 5 years but we broke up over the summer of 2010. He has a bad drug problem(he was an IV drug user) and I wanted to get away from him because he would constantly lie about his drug use. He is sober and living in a halfway house and I know he has had many female sexual partners who live in the halfway house. I saw him for the first time in months this past weekend and I did kiss him with an open mouth and he did finger me. I regretted the incident because I know that I don't want to be with him anymore. What are the chances you can get any kind of STD including HIV from french kissing and being fingered by a guy when no blood or cuts are present?

[gracefromHHP]

the best thing to do is to be seen and have this checked out. call monday and schedule an appointment to follow up on this.

[Jackie428]

I am 23 year old white female who has only had sex with one person and the last time was 4 months ago. And I had a full STD screening afterwards that said I was clean from everything. I recently starting dating somebody and about a week ago he fingered me and we made out. That is all of my sexual history. I have never had an STD or anything, then tonight I notice is flat red spot on my vagina. It doesn't hurt or itch and it just looks like rug burn almost. It is perfectly circular. Nothing coming out of it. Not raised at all. I don't know what it is but I am in panic mode. Please give your input on what this could be.

[gracefromHHP]

kissing him and being fingered isn't a risk for any std.

if you haven't covered your own bases with full std testing since you last had sex with anyone, by all means do that so you can get peace of mind.

grace