Std after lucky massage

[27manquest]

Hello, i visited massage parol 7-8 weeks ago, there was full naked body/body massage with no penetration, direct kissing, juat handjob at the end. At some parts penis and vagina could touch each other for a short time, and also a lot of lube was used. I made a test after a 5 weeks, it was urine test and all basic std ( herpes, chlamidia, etc) came nagative. Only one im still worried about is syphilis. I did not see any visible sores or rashes on her body, and i checked myself every day for possible bumps or sores. Is it possible to say that i did not get syphilis after 8 weeks with no visible chancre? Can chancre be hidden somewhere, like in urine channel? Could chancre appear in other parts if they were not exposed? Is it possible to miss a chancre for a man, checking every day? There were some little bumps appeared on the fingers, which she sicked during massage, after few weeks, but dermathologist said it was dishidrozia and it dissapeared few days later. I dont know if i can have unprotected sex with my other half, and nerves with guilt already lost me few pounds. Thank you

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, with genital to genital rubbing the risks would be for syphilis and herpes so test for them for your partners protection. But if you did not see any sores or blisters your risk is close to zero.

[27manquest]

So, bassically she had to have some sores or rash on hands and outside on her vagina and rub it into penis to get infected? As i remember she more grinded on the leg, and maybe just touched the penis. Does the fact that i trimmed my pubic hair that day before increase risks of getting infected? And as i read its possible to miss chancre, but does this occur on men, or is it clearly vissable?