grace can give a helpful reply
Hi Adam, HIV does not spread by skin contact but Herpes can. If you used a condom then u need not worry at all about HIV infection; just worry about the Herpes infection!
And, be careful during a herpes outbreak, because for the duration of the outbreak your chances of acquiring HIV increase by 5-6 times as compared to the chances of a normal person with no outbreak.
Another note: condoms do protect against STDs, but you need to understand that Herpes has several different types, Simplex (HSV-1, HSV-2) and Zoster. Herpes Simplex can occur in two places, upper body or in genital area. Zoster only occurs in Upper body. Also simplex outbreak re-occur but Zoster is generally a one time affair.
So the girl you had sex with must have had Simplex outbreak in upper body to have passed you the infection.
Hope this helps!